{"id":11179,"date":"2021-07-17T02:34:06","date_gmt":"2021-07-17T02:34:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=11179"},"modified":"2021-07-17T02:34:08","modified_gmt":"2021-07-17T02:34:08","slug":"ngoai-tinh-co-the-tha-nhung-kho-quen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=11179","title":{"rendered":"NGO\u1ea0I T\u00ccNH: C\u00d3 TH\u1ec2 THA NH\u01afNG KH\u00d3 QU\u00caN!<\/strong>
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R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. T\u00ednh chung, c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 15-20% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 350%  c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh bao g\u1ed3m \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 50 v\u00e0 60. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb 20 \u0111\u1ebfn 30 n\u0103m.   [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, v\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p l\u1ee1 l\u1ea7m, g\u1ea1o th\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh c\u01a1m, hay v\u00e1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng thuy\u1ec1n, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n, \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda sai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi trong h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1eabn l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i g\u00ec th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eeba mi\u1ec5n sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m ch\u1eeba l\u1ed7i. M\u1ed9t l\u00fd do ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tha th\u1ee9 hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

BA C\u00c1I L\u0102NG NH\u0102NG \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed5 t\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, trai g\u00e1i, v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 b\u1ecf, kh\u00f3 ch\u1eeba m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen, th\u00e0nh nghi\u1ec7n. Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 say s\u01b0a, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng ai cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea b\u00e0i b\u1ea1c ho\u1eb7c thu\u1ed1c x\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf nh\u01b0: vui th\u00f4i m\u00e0, \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0i v\u00e1n cho vui th\u00f4i, \u0103n thua g\u00ec… Nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat v\u00e0 tr\u0103ng hoa g\u00e1i g\u00fa c\u0169ng v\u1eady, h\u00fat \u0111i\u1ebfu thu\u1ed1c cho \u1ea5m l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1ea1t mi\u1ec7ng, hay \u0111\u1ee1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fat t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m h\u01b0\u01a1ng hoa \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1edbt t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t, cho c\u00f3 ch\u00fat b\u00f3ng m\u00e1t gi\u1eefa tr\u01b0a h\u00e8 n\u00f3ng b\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a sa m\u1ea1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi… T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn \u1edf b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i s\u00e2u, \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nghi\u1ec7n r\u1ed3i, vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ec5. N\u00f3 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1: Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ch\u1ee7 quan v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1ch quan. Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u00e2m linh, v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u00f3a \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u00fa X\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cM\u1ed9t tr\u00e0, m\u1ed9t r\u01b0\u1ee3u, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0,<\/em>
Ba c\u00e1i l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng n\u00f3 qu\u1ea5y ta,<\/em>
Ch\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o hay th\u1ee9 n\u1ea5y,<\/em>
C\u00f3 ch\u0103ng ch\u1eeba r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u1edbi ch\u1eeba tr\u00e0.\u201d<\/em> [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00e1i g\u00fa, tr\u0103ng hoa l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 ch\u1eeba nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea6N M\u1ed8T L\u00dd DO<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eeba b\u1ecf lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. N\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu t\u00f4i quen bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eeba nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eeba nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, d\u00f9 ch\u1eeba hay ch\u1eeba r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1eeba, b\u1ecf d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do. C\u00e1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda m\u1ed9t khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1i l\u1ed7i hay khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 d\u00e1m m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i. L\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m ho\u1eb7c \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ea7n s\u1eeda l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, t\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u m\u1ea1nh. Th\u1eddi trai tr\u1ebb, t\u1eedu l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i sau khi mi\u1ec1n Nam Vi\u1ec7t Nam b\u1ecb s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, mang ki\u1ebfp tha h\u01b0\u01a1ng, trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng tr\u1ed5i d\u1eady, trong l\u00fac \u0111ang l\u00e1i xe anh th\u00e8m m\u1ed9t ly bia hay m\u1ed9t ly r\u01b0\u1ee3u. V\u00e0 anh d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1n b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng mua m\u1ed9t loon bia \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1m gi\u00e3n c\u01a1n kh\u00e1t, \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n s\u1ee9c kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a n\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9 r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i, anh th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9a c\u00f2n, \u0111\u1ee9a m\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111i t\u00f9 trong c\u00e1c tr\u1ea1i c\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y v\u1ec1. B\u1ed7ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng anh th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c. Anh t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201cC\u00f2n m\u00ecnh, mang ki\u1ebfp tha h\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea5t l\u1ea1, x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui g\u00ec m\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng.\u201d Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i anh qu\u0103ng loon bia v\u00e0o th\u00f9ng r\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nay anh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn r\u01b0\u1ee3u, bia. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n trong l\u00fac b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0103n h\u1ecfi anh sao kh\u00f4ng u\u1ed1ng ch\u00fat cho vui, v\u00e0 anh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cS\u1ee3 b\u1ec7nh c\u0169 t\u00e1i ph\u00e1t!\u201d. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a anh c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m ch\u1eeba r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t qu\u00ed gi\u00e1. Theo t\u00f4i, c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 anh ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u1eeba r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ch\u1eeba tr\u00e0, ch\u1eeba thu\u1ed1c, ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u1eeba th\u00f3i tr\u0103ng hoa tuy d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. T\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c anh!     <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft gi\u01a1 tay ra n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea6N M\u1ed8T B\u00c0N <\/strong>TAY  <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, tuy kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 trong th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay \u0111\u01b0a ra, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, b\u00e0n tay \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng. Ch\u00ednh b\u00e0n tay n\u00e0y s\u1ebd n\u00e2ng d\u1eady b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n sa ng\u00e3, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m v\u1eefng l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00ednh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eadt t\u00e2m mu\u1ed1n quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean. Trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 350%  c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng c\u0169ng \u1edf trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea6N S\u1ef0 THA TH\u1ee8 <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu \u1edf m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. V\u00ec trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u0169ng b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCh\u00e9m cha c\u00e1i ki\u1ebfp l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng chung<\/em>
K\u1ebb \u0111\u1eafp ch\u0103n b\u00f4ng, k\u1ebb l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng\u201d. <\/em>[3]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m l\u1ebd hay l\u00e0m ch\u00e1nh trong ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111a th\u00ea lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i t\u00e2m l\u00fd trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u01b0\u1edbc ta tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o cam ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai cam t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng, b\u1ecb chia s\u1ebb. B\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3, trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 m\u1ed9t, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n g\u1ea5p nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. V\u00ec theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 h\u01a1n, n\u1ebfu th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 danh d\u1ef1, v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha t\u00f9y v\u00e0o m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ed1i c\u1ea3i v\u00e0 t\u00f9y v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu. Tuy nhi\u00ean theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tha nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

THA NH\u01afNG KH\u00d3 QU\u00caN<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cTha nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean\u201d hay \u0111\u00fang ra ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u201ctha nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua nh\u1eefng giao t\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u0103ng hoa ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi lao v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho v\u1ee3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u201ckh\u00f3 tha th\u1ee9\u201d ho\u1eb7c  \u201ckh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9\u201d cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1eafc cho c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng may c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng mang th\u00f3i tr\u0103ng hoa, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. T\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, n\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb em \u0111au kh\u1ed5, kh\u00f3 tha th\u1ee9, th\u00ec c\u0169ng n\u00ean ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ecbn nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9. T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau khi ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m mu\u1ed1n \u0103n n\u0103n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ty. H\u1ecd r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 khi nghe nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ho\u00e0i nghi v\u00e0 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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S\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00eau l\u00ean c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cL\u00e0m sao tha khi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n quanh qu\u1ea9n trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i? Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tha nh\u01b0ng xem nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0, m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft c\u1eaft lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i s\u1eb9o. Mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i s\u1eb9o \u1ea5y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh nh\u1eafc nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y m\u1edf l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh an, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u201cV\u00ec ch\u00ednh khi th\u1ee9 tha l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9\u201d. [4] V\u00e0 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n tha nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 ta l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn lao, l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd \u0111ong \u0111\u1ea7y con tim c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1.Infidelity Statistics on Men, Women, and Relationships …<\/strong>
https:\/\/divorce.lovetoknow.com \u203a Divorce \u203a About Divorce<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ba C\u00e1i L\u0103ng Nh\u0103ng. Th\u01a1 Tr\u1ea7n T\u1ebf X\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em>, NXB V\u0103n ho\u00e1 – Th\u00f4ng tin, 1998<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. L\u1ea5y Ch\u1ed3ng Chung. Ki\u1ec1u Thu Ho\u1ea1ch, Th\u01a1 n\u00f4m H\u1ed3 Xu\u00e2n H\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em>, NXB V\u0103n h\u1ecdc, 2008<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.Kinh H\u00f2a B\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. T\u00ednh chung, c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 15-20% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y\u0111\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp…<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11181,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12,57],"tags":[100,296,125,341,340,226],"class_list":["entry","author-ntviet","post-11179","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-chuyenmuc","category-giaoduc-vanhoc-lichsu","tag-cong-giao","tag-gia-dinh","tag-hon-nhan","tag-ngoai-tinh","tag-tha-thu","tag-xa-hoi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11179","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11179"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11179\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11179"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11179"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11179"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}