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TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/span>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khoan thai t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, h\u1ea5p t\u1ea5p. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u, ru\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eadu m\u00e9p kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m \u0111u\u1ed5i. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ho\u1eb7c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Nhi\u1ec1u khi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y sao sao \u1ea5y, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, c\u00f3 khi l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb coi nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3, b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p, v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd chi\u1ebfm ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 di truy\u1ec1n. Cung c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng di truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9<\/strong>. Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. <\/strong>Sau n\u1eefa ph\u1ea3i k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00ed h\u1eadu, c\u01a1m \u0103n, n\u01b0\u1edbc u\u1ed1ng, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd, v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00f9ng mi\u1ec1n. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 tr\u00ean t\u00ednh n\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u01b0 c\u00e1ch, d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u00edch l\u0169y hay t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu \u0111i nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen, suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u t\u1ecf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb sai l\u1ea7m: \u201cTri nh\u00e2n tri di\u1ec7n, b\u1ea5t tri t\u00e2m\u201d l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u00e1i, anh ch\u1ecb em trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng b\u00ed \u1ea9n th\u1ea7m k\u00edn trong t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft, ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng, con, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u1eeb t\u1eeb, ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nhanh h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00e1i mi\u1ec7ng c\u0169ng t\u00eda ria v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gi\u1eef k\u00edn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i v\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i gi\u1edd, v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft. Trong m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef k\u00edn b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o m\u1eadt trong kho\u1ea3ng 47 gi\u1edd.  K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi 3.000 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 18 \u0111\u1ebfn 65. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f9y tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o (front lobe) ghi nh\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh.<\/strong> [2] N\u00f3 ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Theo th\u1eddi gian, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u01b0 x\u1eed, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u1eebng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, l\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 l\u01b0u gi\u1eef \u1edf n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u1ed9t b\u1ecf. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao: \u201cGiang s\u01a1n d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh kh\u00f3 d\u1eddi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, th\u00ec b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh hay t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng ngay khi c\u00f2n trong l\u00f2ng m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n qua nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u01a1 tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean.<\/strong> \u201cTam th\u1eadp nhi l\u1eadp\u201d, l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00f3i chung. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ngay t\u1eeb khi v\u1eeba l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng m\u1eb9. \u0110\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, v\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean th\u00ec h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Napoleon \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u r\u1ea5t ch\u00ed l\u00fd: \u201cPh\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y con 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 sinh ra!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNh\u00e2n chi s\u01a1, t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n thi\u1ec7n\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn, nghe v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra chung quanh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb cha, m\u1eb9, anh, ch\u1ecb, em\u2026Theo th\u1eddi gian th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu v\u00e0o b\u1ed9 nh\u1edb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quay l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 mang ra \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng t\u00f9y m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y l\u1ea5y th\u00ed d\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 sinh ra trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 t\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha say x\u1ec9n, b\u00e0i b\u1ea1c, ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng, h\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5 v\u1ee3 con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 chua ngoa, h\u00e0nh t\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn ch\u1ed3ng con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb l\u00eau l\u1ed5ng, cao b\u1ed3i, du \u0111\u00e3ng, x\u00ec ke, ma t\u00fay ho\u1eb7c xe sua \u0111ua \u0111\u00f2i. Em b\u00e9 \u1ea5y su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y nh\u00ecn, nghe, c\u1ea3m, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0103n, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 cung c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u1edbn l\u00ean em s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cG\u1ea7n b\u00f9n m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng h\u00f4i tanh m\u00f9i b\u00f9n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n<\/strong> v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/strong> th\u00ec nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u00ednh \u1ea5y, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

a)B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh kh\u00f3 d\u1eddi<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, h\u00e3y ph\u00e2n t\u00edch kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc.  H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ho\u00e0n l\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a l\u00e0: \u201cGiang s\u01a1n d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh kh\u00f3 d\u1eddi.\u201d Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh theo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng: \u201cGi\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2n non nh\u1ebd, \u0111\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfe ph\u1ea3i ch\u1eeba\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng n\u0103m d\u00e0i t\u00f9 t\u1ed9i, c\u1ef1c h\u00ecnh, tra t\u1ea5n, nh\u1ed3i s\u1ecd, t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, nh\u1ed3i s\u1ecd \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan ni\u1ec7m, \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c. L\u00fd do? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u1edf tr\u00ean, trong vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, \u201cfront lobe\u201d (th\u00f9y tr\u01b0\u1edbc) c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ghi nh\u1eadn, nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m t\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed. M\u1edbi sinh ra n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y tr\u1eafng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 n\u00e0o x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 ghi l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft m\u1ef1c. Khi m\u1ef1c kh\u00f4 v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ebft m\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft l\u00ean ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac c\u00e1 t\u00ednh, cung c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/strong>. N\u1ebfu \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p v\u1eeba n\u00eau tr\u00ean cho m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 sinh ra trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 cha nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp, c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 chua ngoa, \u0111anh \u0111\u00e1, c\u00f3 anh, ch\u1ecb l\u00eau l\u1ed5ng, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m, b\u1ecb t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, b\u1eb1ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd th\u00ec nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft m\u1ef1c kia, v\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft m\u1ef1c \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec cho c\u00e1 t\u00ednh sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a em? D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, em c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00f3i c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t, say x\u1ec9n c\u1ee7a cha, th\u00f3i chua ngoa, \u0111anh \u0111\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 th\u00f3i ch\u01a1i b\u1eddi, l\u00eau l\u1ed5ng, du c\u00f4n c\u1ee7a anh hay ch\u1ecb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a cha \u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c r\u1ea5t qu\u00ed gi\u00e1: \u201cG\u1ea7n m\u1ef1c th\u00ec \u0111en. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e8n th\u00ec r\u1ea1ng.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 s\u1eeda, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 chinh ph\u1ee5c l\u00e0 n\u00f3i theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

b) G\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e0y l\u00f4i k\u00e9o<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch (personality) v\u00e0 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed (temperament)\u00a0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. <\/strong>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 s\u1eeda khi nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m, sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 s\u1eeda n\u00e0y l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quay v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u201ctu t\u00e2m s\u1eeda t\u00ednh\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha, m\u1eb9, anh, ch\u1ecb, em, th\u1ea7y d\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ho\u1eb7c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t qua m\u1ed9t c\u01a1n b\u1ea1o b\u1ec7nh, m\u1ed9t tai n\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y v\u00ed nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a m\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc Archimedes \u0111ang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t: \u201cH\u00e3y cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, s\u1eeda d\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f2n b\u1ea9y \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ef1 hy sinh v\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong>: \u201cL\u1eddi n\u00f3i lung lay, g\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e0y l\u00f4i k\u00e9o\u201d. Ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta: \u201cTh\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 anh em noi theo m\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc.\u201d (Gioan 13:15)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. https:\/\/www.dvm360.com \u203a view \u203a women-can-keep-se…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. https:\/\/www.brainline.org \u203a topic \u203a behavioral-emotion…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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