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\u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng mi\u1ec7ng th\u00ec sang.
\u0110\u00e0n b\u00e0 r\u1ed9ng mi\u1ec7ng tan hoang c\u1eeda nh\u00e0\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. R\u1ed9ng mi\u1ec7ng hay h\u1eb9p mi\u1ec7ng l\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea7n c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c tan hoang c\u1eeda nh\u00e0. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng ch\u1eedi b\u1edbi v\u1ee3 con, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 theo l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, theo quan ni\u1ec7m \u201ctr\u1ecdng nam khinh n\u1eef\u201d m\u1edbi l\u00e0m cho gia \u0111\u1ea1o tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t an. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n che d\u1ea5u nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng con trai, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v\u1edbi quan ni\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i phong ki\u1ebfn x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng con trai t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfu b\u1ea1c, l\u00ea la t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c qu\u00e1n nh\u1eadu, ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e0, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ee5m n\u0103m, t\u1ee5m ba b\u00e0n chuy\u1ec7n thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea, th\u00ec ai c\u0169ng cho l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. M\u1ed9t t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n thu\u1ed9c gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, con trai m\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay l\u00e0 \u201cgiao l\u01b0u\u201d. Giao l\u01b0u bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n, giao l\u01b0u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, giao l\u01b0u \u00e1p phe, m\u00e1nh mung m\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng giao l\u01b0u \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu \u0111em so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi th\u00f3i ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea, \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch, ho\u1eb7c l\u1eafm \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb em ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef xem ra v\u1eabn nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t thi\u00ean v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi. Tuy ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 c\u1ee7a phong tr\u00e0o ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f2i b\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng trong quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n nay. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do bi\u1ec7n minh cho th\u00f3i n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, ho\u1eb7c hay n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. V\u00e0 li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u00e1i n\u1eef hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00d3I NHI\u1ec0U L\u00c0 B\u1ea2N N\u0102NG C\u1ee6A PH\u1ee4 N\u1eee<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a khoa h\u1ecdc, th\u00ec 80-90% ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u00e3o c\u1ea7u tr\u00e1i. [1] N\u00f3i chung, n\u00e3o c\u1ea7u tr\u00e1i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn thu\u1ed9c n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, trong khi 80-90% nam gi\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u00e3o c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hi\u1ec7n nay, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn theo khoa h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao \u00f3c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea1i linh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 n\u00f3i n\u0103ng. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean Journal of Neuroscience cho bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t protein g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 FOXP2 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t sinh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u01a1n 30% FOXP2 trong \u00f3c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em g\u00e1i. V\u00e0 n\u00f3i chung khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng n\u1eef gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00f3i hay h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o c\u1ea7u tr\u00e1i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 tr\u00ed nh\u1edb. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e9 ph\u00e1i n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1edbm kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 n\u00f3i. M\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n n\u1eef v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n nam c\u1ea3 hai h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, th\u00ed d\u1ee5, Anh ng\u1eef hay Ph\u00e1p ng\u1eef th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u1eef bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n nam c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u0169ng nh\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y n\u00ean ph\u00e1i n\u1eef ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng n\u00f3i hay m\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00f2n hay n\u00f3i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trung b\u00ecnh n\u00f3i 20.000 ch\u1eef m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i c\u00f3 7.000 ch\u1eef. [3] N\u00f3i g\u1ea7n g\u1ea5p ba l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, cho n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u1edf s\u1edf, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7, khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 th\u00ec n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/a>M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa hai n\u00e3o c\u1ea7u (The corpus callosum) c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n, n\u00ean c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nhanh h\u01a1n, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nam gi\u1edbi. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc minh ch\u1ee9ng r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. [4] K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m 2 vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 n\u1ebfu v\u1eeba n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u1eeba l\u00e0m b\u1ebfp th\u00ec sau khi k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 b\u1eefa c\u01a1m cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn x\u1ea3y ra tranh c\u00e3i, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n g\u00e2y ra kh\u1eafc kh\u1ea9u gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Nhi\u1ec1u khi v\u1ee3 n\u00f3i g\u00e0, ch\u1ed3ng hi\u1ec3u th\u00e0nh v\u1ecbt, ho\u1eb7c v\u1eeba g\u00e0 v\u1eeba ch\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu thua kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i con g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00d3I NHI\u1ec0U T\u1ed0T HAY KH\u00d4NG T\u1ed0T?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u00ean, n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u hay kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng thi\u00ean ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, do \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai, n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, n\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng x\u00ec x\u00e8o, to nh\u1ecf. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau, s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i ch\u1ee3\u201d. So s\u00e1nh n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n khi tham d\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh vi\u00ean h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t d\u00ed d\u1ecfm. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, trong H\u00e1n t\u1ef1, ch\u1eef N\u1eef g\u1ed3m 2 ch\u1eef th\u1ecb. V\u00e0 khi 2 ch\u1eef n\u1eef vi\u1ebft song song s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh ch\u1eef ch\u1ee3. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0110\u00f4ng, T\u00e2y h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 hay n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y hay n\u00f3i \u00edt ch\u1eef m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i. V\u00ec n\u00f3i, theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhau, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai n\u00f3i. \u1ede \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y n\u00f3i c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00fap truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa nh\u1eefng d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, con trai c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn v\u00e0 h\u01a1i \u00edch k\u1ef7 khi \u0111\u01b0a ra ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ecd s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho l\u00e0 c\u00e0m r\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. C\u0169ng v\u00ec s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e0m r\u00e0m. L\u00fd do, v\u00ec ch\u1ed3ng con b\u00ea b\u1ed1i, b\u1eeba b\u00e3i, h\u1eadu \u0111\u1eadu m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n t\u1ecf ra v\u00f4 t\u00e2m. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e0m r\u00e0m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con s\u1eeda sai v\u00e0 g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng, s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, nghi\u00eam t\u00fac th\u00ec ai m\u00e0 m\u1ec7t x\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i c\u00e0m r\u00e0m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u n\u00e3o b\u1ed9, b\u1ed9 nh\u1edb v\u00e0 b\u1ed9 n\u00f3i c\u0169ng thu\u1ed9c b\u00e1n c\u1ea7u tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 gi\u00fap ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u1edb r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 v\u00e0 chi ti\u1ebft t\u1eebng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u01b0u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. N\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn n\u1eef gi\u1edbi r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd bu\u1ed3n l\u00f2ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i. \u0110a s\u1ed1 nam gi\u1edbi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi tri\u1ebft l\u00fd \u201ctr\u1ee9ng g\u00e0, tr\u1ee9ng \u1ebfch\u201d nh\u01b0 nhau. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng trong n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u201ctha nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean.\u201d \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng c\u00e0m r\u00e0m, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng, v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng th\u00ec \u201chi\u1ec3u r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i m\u00e3i\u201d, \u0111\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c th\u00ec \u201cn\u00f3i m\u00e3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m\u201d.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u0169ng theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap v\u01a1i \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c trong n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng. Vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, \u00e2u c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c x\u1ea3 \u0111i nh\u1eefng d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n trong l\u00f2ng. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n tr\u00ed nh\u1edb t\u1ed1t, l\u1ea1i th\u00eam ngu\u1ed3n ch\u1eef ngh\u0129a phong ph\u00fa l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0\u1edbng tai gai m\u1eaft, \u1ea5m \u1ee9c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra s\u1ee3 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh. T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hay nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111au d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y, ti\u00eau h\u00f3a b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, kinh nguy\u1ec7t b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n, v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00f3i ra th\u00ec tan c\u1eeda, n\u00e1t nh\u00e0, g\u00e2y x\u00edch m\u00edch, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra th\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe th\u00ec n\u00f3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, n\u00f3i ra c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u201cba ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p h\u1ecdp nhau s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i ch\u1ee3\u201d. Khi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe. T\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 ph\u00e1t ra \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng \u201ct\u00e1m\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao c\u1ea5m ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ct\u00e1m\u201d? T\u00e1m cho vui, t\u00e1m x\u1ea3 tress, t\u00e1m gi\u00fap nhau kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m l\u1eabn nhau th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n g\u00ec b\u1eb1ng. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u00e1m r\u1ed3i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 kh\u1ecfi c\u00e0m r\u00e0m, \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn ch\u1ed3ng con th\u00ec c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5ng m\u00e0y r\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ea5m. Trong Th\u00e1nh Kinh, \u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t\u201d. [5] Ch\u1eafc khi ph\u00e1n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1i n\u1eef n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1.\u00a0 https:\/\/toofab.com \u203a photos \u203a 2015\/09\/22 \u203a ladies-of-th…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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