{"id":13504,"date":"2022-02-19T20:03:58","date_gmt":"2022-02-19T20:03:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=13504"},"modified":"2022-02-19T20:04:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-19T20:04:14","slug":"giao-duc-tre-vi-thanh-nien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=13504","title":{"rendered":"GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C TR\u1eba V\u1eca TH\u00c0NH NI\u00caN<\/strong>
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Ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1n xuy\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1eeb trong nh\u00e0 ra \u0111\u1ebfn ngo\u00e0i ng\u00f5. Ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb, 3 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec1u r\u0103m r\u1eafp v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00e3i l\u1eddi ch\u1ecb, l\u00e0m sai \u00fd ch\u1ecb. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n xem nh\u01b0 \u00eam \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng khen ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang, t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i.<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u01a1. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra khi \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i l\u1edbn 15 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh em, c\u00e3i m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng d\u00f9ng dao c\u1eaft tay l\u1ea5y m\u00e1u vi\u1ebft l\u1eddi th\u1ec1, v\u00e0 c\u1eaft lu\u00f4n m\u00e1i t\u00f3c \u0111\u1eb9p \u00f3ng \u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf d\u1ea5u th\u1ed1ng h\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, ho\u1eb7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9; \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c em?!!! S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c v\u1eeba x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay. N\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TU\u1ed4I V\u1eca TH\u00c0NH NI\u00caN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 13 \u0111\u1ebfn 19. [1] M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p t\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i v\u1eabn c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn khi m\u1ed9t em \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i 18 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u00e2n s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e0 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 30. Nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t n\u00e0y c\u0169ng tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa hai quan ni\u1ec7m \u0110\u00f4ng v\u00e0 T\u00e2y: \u201cTam th\u1eadp nhi l\u1eadp\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  • Tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i n\u1eef<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Con g\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1eady th\u00ec \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 10-11, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y \u1edf kho\u1ea3ng 15-17. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, con trai b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1eady th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng tu\u1ed5i 11-12 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 16-17. Con g\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 kho\u1ea3ng 4 n\u0103m sau nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec1n d\u1eady th\u00ec. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    • Tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i nam<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

      Theo m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, ph\u00e1i nam \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i 43 \u2013 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian 11 n\u0103m sau ph\u00e1i n\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00e1i nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa tu\u1ed5i 30 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc 40. Nh\u01b0ng trung b\u00ecnh, ph\u00e1i n\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd khi 32 tu\u1ed5i. [3]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, trong khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ee9c t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 32, t\u1ee9c kho\u1ea3ng 11 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u00e1i nam \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 43. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do 8 trong s\u1ed1 10 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t r\u1eb1ng ph\u00e1i nam kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. [4]  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      H\u00ccNH \u1ea2NH V\u1eca TH\u00c0NH NI\u00caN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u201cG\u00e1i m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3y b\u1ebb g\u1eaby s\u1eebng tr\u00e2u\u201d (Ca dao t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      Ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 huynh khi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean l\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean, thay da, \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ecbt. Ngo\u00e0i ph\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 l\u00fd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea3o g\u00ec, nghe n\u1ea5y b\u1ed7ng ch\u1ed1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i 180 \u0111\u1ed9. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngang t\u00e0ng, b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o, c\u00e3i tr\u1ea3, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y, \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1i cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a em b\u00e9 g\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eeba k\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cn\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d: \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee7 ki\u1ec3u c\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c nhu\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ecf, v\u00e0ng, xanh, x\u1ecf tai, x\u1ecf m\u0169i, x\u1ecf l\u01b0\u1ee1i, x\u1ecf c\u1eb1m, x\u1ecf r\u1ed1n v\u00e0 x\u00e2m m\u00ecnh. L\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i th\u00ec ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1, v\u0103ng t\u1ee5c, ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb th\u00ec c\u1ed9c l\u1ed1c\u2026 H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y ai mu\u1ed1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn, ho\u1eb7c ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec ngao ng\u00e1n. Nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea9y ra cho m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9 n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 x\u1ea9y ra cho h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho m\u1ecdi n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tr\u00ean, gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 huynh, v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c? Ch\u00fang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt, suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/strong> T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00edt r\u00fac n\u00e1ch m\u1eb9, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ea5p b\u00f3ng cha n\u1eefa. Xin h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ef1 ki\u00eang n\u1ec3, v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Tuy n\u00f3i l\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, \u1edf th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con \u201cnai v\u00e0ng ng\u01a1 ng\u00e1c\u201d. R\u1ea5t hung h\u0103ng con b\u1ecd x\u00edt. Anh h\u00f9ng r\u01a1m, m\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m m\u1ed3i cho nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.      <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      TR\u01af\u1edeNG TH\u00c0NH<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      V\u1eady th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh? \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      • Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 l\u00fd<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

        Khi m\u1ed9t em b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan n\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i c\u0169ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Em b\u00e9 cao, to v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n. R\u00e2u, t\u00f3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ecdc. Ng\u1ef1c, m\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em g\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd, c\u00e1c em \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c em ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1c em v\u1eabn c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1eddi, non d\u1ea1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        • Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

          Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/strong> N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng khi vui c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khi bu\u1ed3n, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed theo t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u1edf tr\u00ean, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 30<\/strong>. \u1ede \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y v\u00e0 tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, cha m\u1eb9 hay ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c theo d\u00f5i, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, g\u00f3p \u00fd v\u1edbi con em m\u00ecnh m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1eed nh\u00e2n, cao h\u1ecdc, ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9, b\u00e1c s\u1ef9, lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, k\u1ef9 s\u01b0, nha s\u1ef9 hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 lo\u1ea1i s\u1ef9 tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4n ngoan, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          • Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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            Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng trong quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin, v\u1ec1 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. <\/strong>T\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. M\u00ea t\u00edn, cu\u1ed3ng t\u00edn, ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Ngo\u00e0i ra, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m, lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi l\u00e1i xe \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, ch\u00ednh \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng xe. Ho\u1eb7c t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i ti\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh, danh d\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 t\u1ed9i, s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb b\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u1edf t\u00f9, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

            NH\u1eeeNG G\u00cc PH\u1ee4 HUYNH C\u1ea6N<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Vai tr\u00f2 ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c em \u1edf tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1, tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian d\u01b0\u1edbi 12 tu\u1ed5i. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00e1c em tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, d\u1eady th\u00ec v\u00ec th\u1ebf kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00e1c em khi l\u00ean 3, l\u00ean 7 tu\u1ed5i. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i g\u1ee3i \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng khi mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, mu\u1ed1n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c em.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            • D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gi\u1edd cho con<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

              N\u1ebfu khi c\u00e1c em c\u00f2n b\u00e9, cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00e1c em, th\u00ec khi c\u00e1c em b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c em. Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gi\u1edd cho ch\u00fang n\u00f3. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i lo c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 lo cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ch\u00fang n\u00f3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 h\u1eefu l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u00eda ph\u1ee5 huynh, ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh, nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 ti\u1ec1n r\u1eebng b\u1ea1c bi\u1ec3n nh\u01b0ng \u0103n kh\u00f4ng ngon, ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean, v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng xong v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u00f9 t\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0: \u201cNh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9, ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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              • H\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

                N\u00f3i v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i g\u00e0, con c\u00e1i n\u00f3i v\u1ecbt. Cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u00fang, con c\u00e1i c\u00e3i l\u00e0 sai. V\u1eady ai \u0111\u00fang? Ai sai? Th\u01b0a, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u sai. Nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh sai h\u01a1n v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, \u0111ang ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, \u0111ang la l\u1ed1i con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ed7i ph\u1ea1m khi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                V\u1eady n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nghe trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                a) C\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi mang ngh\u0129a ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/em>:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean.<\/strong> Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 khi l\u00ean 15 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e3i tay \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1eb7t cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi mang ngh\u0129a ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb h\u1ecfi coi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, T\u1ea1i sao? T\u1ea1i sao m\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y? T\u1ea1i sao m\u00e0y y\u00eau con \u1ea5y? T\u1ea1i sao m\u00e0y b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc? T\u1ea1i sao m\u00e0y t\u1eadp t\u00e0nh h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c? Ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec? M\u00e0y l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1eady? C\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00e0y c\u1ee9 d\u1ea5u d\u1ea5u, \u0111\u00fat \u0111\u00fat? M\u00e0y c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m v\u1eady l\u00e0 sai kh\u00f4ng?… \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ch\u1ebft (death end requests), nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi mang t\u00ednh khi\u00eau kh\u00edch, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb. V\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u0169ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                b) C\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                \u0110\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, ph\u1ee5 huynh ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft n\u00eau l\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1edf <\/strong>(open questions), nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5: Con cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft l\u00fd do con ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc? Con quen v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trai con l\u00e2u ch\u01b0a? Sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft?… Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u0103n kho\u0103n, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Ngo\u00e0i ra, ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng n\u00ean bi\u1ebft th\u00eam \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, con g\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1eb9. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n 5 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9.\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ph\u1ee5 huynh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                \u1ede tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. L\u00fd do, v\u00ec \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c em \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng minh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe, chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n nay \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 helicopter parents (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch l\u00e0 canh ch\u1eebng v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn). Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i chi\u1ebfc tr\u1ef1c th\u0103ng \u1edf tr\u00ean, theo d\u00f5i v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft tinh t\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1 t\u00ednh tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ni\u1ec1m tin gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u00e1nh, ch\u1eedi, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, ho\u1eb7c chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c d\u00e0nh cho tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng so s\u00e1nh con n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con kh\u00e1c, con m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Trong c\u00e1c ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp, ri\u00eang ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m trau d\u1ed3i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/strong>. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o, h\u1ed3i t\u00e2m, thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch v\u1edf gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean c\u1ea7n<\/strong>. \u201cKh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m cho nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn. S\u1ef1 v\u00f4 t\u00e2m, l\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0129nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 g\u00e2y tai h\u1ea1i cho ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 con ch\u00e1u sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng v\u00f4 l\u00fd khi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3o k\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 [5]. Nh\u01b0ng Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng n\u00e0y: \u201cN\u1ebfu ai n\u00ean c\u1edb ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang tin Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec th\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o c\u1ed5 n\u00f3 m\u00e0 n\u00e9m xu\u1ed1ng bi\u1ec3n c\u00f2n h\u01a1n.\u201d (Mat 18:6) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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                1. https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com \u203a dictionary \u203a teenager<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                2. https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org \u203a wiki \u203a Puberty<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                3.https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk \u203a newstopics \u203a howaboutthat<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                4. https:\/\/xlcountry.com \u203a men-arent-fully-mature-until-age-…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                5. Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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