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N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u01a1 tay l\u00ean tr\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t, t\u00eda tai, r\u1ed3i h\u1eb1m h\u1eb1m la l\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao m\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi tao?T\u1ea1i sao m\u00e0y c\u1ee9 c\u00e3i tao?\u201d V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ee1 ng\u1ee1, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb duy nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c c\u00e3i tr\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0: T\u1ea1i sao? \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn cho con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta cho l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng, l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi.<\/strong> Trong khi nh\u1ebd ra ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n

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Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi, h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4 khan v\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n; ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 khi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 n\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c. Trong m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh thi\u00eang li\u00eang ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt, n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng l\u00fd l\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, trong \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bao g\u1ed3m l\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n \u201cth\u1ea3o k\u00ednh\u201d cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00e0m con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/strong> Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ec5 l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i sao con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nghe. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e0ng d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec1n, c\u00e0ng c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c, \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i, con c\u00e1i c\u00e0ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh xa, ho\u1eb7c lu\u1ed3n l\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p c\u0103n c\u1ee9 theo b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Jen Lumanlan,<\/strong> M.S., M.Ed tr\u00ean Psychology Today, ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y 31 th\u00e1ng 7, 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n

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1. Thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i<\/strong>. M\u1ed1i gi\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t. Cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u n\u00ean d\u00e0nh 10 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, l\u1eafng nghe, quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ea7u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Con c\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf, th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. C\u1ea5m c\u1ea3n con c\u00e1i<\/strong>. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i, th\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 thao, v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7, ca nh\u1ea1c, k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt, ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c \u0111a m\u00ea kh\u00e1c, \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c em kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cha m\u1eb9 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea5m c\u00e1ch. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch, nh\u1eefng \u0111a m\u00ea l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n, c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110a s\u1ed1 con c\u00e1i c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u s\u1edf th\u00edch, s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u1eb7c \u0111a m\u00ea c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. <\/strong>Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, v\u00e0 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng \u0111a m\u00ea c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, c\u1ed5 v\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea5m c\u1ea3n.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. N\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac<\/strong>. Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i, \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac. C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec, n\u00f3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o, n\u00f3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec n\u00f3i. Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. N\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i, \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac m\u1edbi \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Ngo\u00e0i ra, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, d\u00f9ng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 (ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3) \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn th\u00ec con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng b\u1eadn. Ri\u00eang v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i la l\u1ed1i, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, th\u1eddi kh\u00f3a bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con c\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i: \u201cTao ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n 5 ph\u00fat n\u1eefa th\u00f4i. M\u00e0y mau mau l\u00ean\u201d. \u0110i tr\u1ec5, v\u1ec1 s\u1edbm l\u00e0 th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c khi d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd gi\u1ea5c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. <\/strong>Nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c d\u1ed3n d\u1eadp, nhi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb em ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n, kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. M\u1ed9t m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con c\u00e1i tu\u00e2n theo ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n

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5. Tr\u1ebb em mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n. <\/strong>Khi cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y n\u1ebfu b\u1eaft \u00e9p ch\u00fang l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang th\u1eed c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho ch\u00fang.     <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. S\u1eeda ph\u1ea1t khi n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn.<\/strong> N\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec la h\u00e9t, m\u1eafng ch\u1eedi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ph\u1ea3n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/strong> Khi n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, cha m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i n\u0103ng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, l\u00fd l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi con. \u201cN\u00f3i ng\u1ecdt l\u1ecdt \u0111\u1ebfn x\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d. Con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u201ct\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c, kh\u1ea9u ph\u1ee5c\u201d, v\u00ec l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 k\u1ebft \u00e1n.<\/strong> Khi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, tr\u00e1nh d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 k\u1ebft \u00e1n: \u201cTao bi\u1ebft m\u00e0y qu\u00e1 m\u00e0!\u201d Hay: \u201cTao \u0111\u1ebb m\u00e0y ra tao kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00e0y sao?\u201d Tr\u1ebb em r\u1ea5t tinh \u00fd v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u1ea5y l\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m ph\u1ecfng \u0111o\u00e1n, ho\u1eb7c \u0111o\u00e1n m\u00f2. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00e1c em kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, s\u1ebd c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i. Mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i nghe m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec \u201cc\u00f3 n\u00f3i c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ecfng \u0111o\u00e1n, quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft \u00e1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch: \u201cSuy b\u1ee5ng ta ra b\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u con c\u00e1i.<\/strong> Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u con c\u00e1i, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i gay g\u1eaft, b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ebb con th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i nghe n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u. Ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i ra.  \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 trong nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u201cL\u1eddi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n mua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1ef1a l\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i cho v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng nhau\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m theo t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c v\u0103n h\u00f3a, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt: Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt chinh ph\u1ee5c l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. <\/strong>\u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u tri\u1ec7t v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, trau d\u1ed3i v\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/strong>. S\u00e1ch Hu\u1ea5n Ca n\u00f3i: \u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft, \u00f4ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft. V\u00ec \u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con gi\u1ed1ng \u00f4ng\u201d (30:4). L\u1eddi S\u00e1ch Th\u00e1nh m\u1edf ra m\u1ed9t vinh d\u1ef1 cao c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u1edbn lao \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u hy sinh, nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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