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H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y. N\u00f3 theo ta m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ec7t b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i d\u00e0i n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng vui bu\u1ed3n, sung s\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua b\u00e1n, \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c s\u1edf h\u1eefu. N\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp, v\u00e0 tan bi\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb hai th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau. Ti\u1ebfn S\u1ef9 John Gray \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y hai th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea5y trong t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, nhan \u0111\u1ec1: \u201cMen are from Mars, Women are from Venus<\/strong> (\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb H\u1ecfa\u00a0Tinh, \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Kim Tinh). Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa hai h\u00e0nh tinh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 74,4 tri\u1ec7u miles t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi 119.740.000 Km. N\u1ebfu \u0111em so s\u00e1nh kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 di truy\u1ec1n, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, v\u0103n h\u00f3a, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh n\u1eefa. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa khi\u1ebfn cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai.<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb t\u00e2m l\u00fd, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong Th\u00e1nh Kinh: \u201cB\u1edfi th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam s\u1ebd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t.\u201d (Kh\u1edfi Nguy\u00ean 2:24) S\u1ef1 li\u00ean k\u1ebft n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean m\u00e3n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea n\u0103m 2021 t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, 6 trong s\u1ed1 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3m t\u00ednh t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1990, khi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0 9,8 trong s\u1ed1 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. [1] Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea kh\u00e1c th\u00ec m\u1ed7i n\u0103m ri\u00eang t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3 c\u00f3 2,3 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n trao l\u1eddi h\u1eb9n \u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00e0 trung b\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 6.200 \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi. [2] Ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i t\u00e2n h\u00f4n \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i tr\u1ecdn h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau. C\u00f3 c\u1eb7p ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi ba th\u00e1ng, s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, n\u0103m n\u0103m, m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba ch\u1ee5c, b\u1ed1n ch\u1ee5c v\u00e0 n\u0103m ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i chia tay. S\u1ed1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1eabn tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3, b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, v\u00e0 g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho nhau, \u201cvui \u00edt, bu\u1ed3n nhi\u1ec1u!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ng\u00e0y nay theo nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan \u201cl\u00e0 m\u1ed3 ch\u00f4n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d, th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf l\u1ea1i thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 trao cho n\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau vui h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i do con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec t\u1ef1 \u00e1i, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng theo nh\u1eefng d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, theo v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc sau \u0111\u00e2y, do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau l\u00ean nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u1eb1m b\u1ed3i b\u1ed5 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u1ea7u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u0169a th\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o tay nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao \u0111\u1ed5i, chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh, h\u1ed3i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang bao g\u1ed3m 3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 3 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n:<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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1-Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nhau:<\/strong> \u201cNg\u00e0i d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nam, c\u00f3 n\u1eef.\u201d (Kh\u1edfi Nguy\u00ean 5:2). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb  thu h\u00fat m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. Theo t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i (physical attraction). L\u1ef1c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 nam l\u1eabn n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng n\u1ea9y sinh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau, g\u1ea7n nhau, v\u00e0 cho nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nhau theo ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 chinh ph\u1ee5c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng hi\u1ec7n nay v\u1ec1 b\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n nam n\u1eef, \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n gi\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t trong chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng suy t\u01b0 v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u0103n t\u00ednh v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00edch t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-L\u1eafng nghe nhau:<\/strong> \u201cC\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.\u201d Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nhau v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf c\u1eeda l\u00f2ng nhau, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1ed1c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1. Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb ngo\u1ea1i giao c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh qu\u1ed1c gia v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n nay. B\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec9nh, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ea5p qu\u1ed1c gia, qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o, trao \u0111\u1ed5i trong m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1, m\u1ecdi c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9.<\/p>\n\n\n

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H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, ng\u00e0y gi\u1edd c\u01b0\u1edbi h\u1ecfi. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o hai ch\u1eef kh\u1eafc kh\u1ea9u. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, tranh ch\u1ea5p, c\u00e3i v\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhau, ho\u1eb7c do c\u00e1i t\u00f4i, do t\u1ef1 \u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 \u1ea5y. C\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb (communication) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nhau v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau? M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i, c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe nhau. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khai tri\u1ec3n r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi, b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i g\u00e0o l\u00ean, ph\u1ea3i la l\u1ed1i, ph\u1ea3i tranh lu\u1eadn. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe nhau, th\u00ec ti\u00ean v\u00e0n ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u00e0i tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i. \u201cH\u00e3y x\u1ecf ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. V\u00e0 sau c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ecfng \u0111o\u00e1n, gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh (assume) chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nhau ho\u1eb7c cho nhau. C\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm ch\u1eafc th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p cho nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n

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3-\u0110\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh trong ni\u1ec1m tin:<\/strong> Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau x\u00e2y tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i ban t\u1eb7ng cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi kh\u1eafc trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c, v\u0103n h\u00f3a, hay t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/strong> Ch\u00ednh trong ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an t\u00e2m tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean c\u0103n b\u1ea3n ni\u1ec1m tin l\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng: \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.\u201d (1 Gioan 4:8). T\u1eeb ni\u1ec1m tin \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d \u00a0\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi, th\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef. Hy sinh, qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh, x\u1ea3 th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau anh ch\u1ecb em, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n, qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng\u2026 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o ngo\u00e0i \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t, \u00edch k\u1ef7, \u0111am m\u00ea, v\u00e0 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng. B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea5t m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t: \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft.\u201d (Di\u1ec5m ca 8:6)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda d\u1eabn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, chung th\u1ee7y v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. \u00a0\u00a0<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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(\u0110\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o th\u00eam nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, v\u0103n h\u00f3a, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, xin v\u00e0o th\u0103m www.giadinhnazareth.org).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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