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H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u1eefa. B\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ebb th\u00f9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tho\u1ea1t nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i: r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat, c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, v\u00e0 l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng trai g\u00e1i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c bao g\u1ed3m: v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadt ra, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, chia l\u00eca v\u00e0 ly t\u00e1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 do m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c: do ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, do ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 do c\u1ea3 hai. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb \u201cT\u00ednh \u00cdch K\u1ef7<\/mark><\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-Nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp h\u00fat s\u00e1ch, x\u00ec ke, ma t\u00fay l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-\u0110am m\u00ea c\u1edd b\u1ea1c l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-\u0110am m\u00ea tr\u00e1i g\u00e1i, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-Ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-L\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-Thi\u1ebfu tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-S\u1ed1ng th\u00f3i gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.
-B\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t, \u00edch k\u1ef7 l\u00e0 \u201cch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d [1], l\u00e0 \u201cch\u1ec9 lo l\u1eafng duy nh\u1ea5t cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/mark><\/strong>\u201d [2]. Theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u00edch k\u1ef7 l\u00e0 \u201cth\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 quan t\u00e2m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch cu\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch, th\u00fa vui, ho\u1eb7c an sinh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d. \u00cdch k\u1ef7 \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng v\u1ecb tha ho\u1eb7c t\u00ednh r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 \u201cm\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng cho l\u1ee3i \u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/mark><\/strong>\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c ch\u1ea5t h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d. Theo t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a Hi\u1ec7p H\u1ed9i T\u00e2m L\u00fd Hoa K\u1ef3 (American Psychological Association (APA) dictionary) th\u00ec \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho m\u00ecnh, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i\u201d.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edch k\u1ef7 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.
-Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo th\u00edch th\u00fa, l\u1ee3i \u00edch ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.
-Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.
-Kh\u00f4ng \u00e1y n\u00e1y khi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng.
-D\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n.
-Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ai.
-Kh\u00f4ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi ai, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00ec mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eed t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i.
-L\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i. [3]<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00e1 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, sau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa: con c\u00e1i, anh ch\u1ecb em, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng hai b\u00ean\u2026 Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh, ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i l\u1ee3i cho m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i \u00fd n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t, n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 nh\u1ea5t, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c \u00e9p v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, c\u1ee7a ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u00f3i, c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu.<\/mark><\/strong> M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tri\u1ebft gia Socrates v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0: \u201cB\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 \u0111i. N\u1ebfu may m\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, \u00edt ra b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia!\u201d Socrates l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea1i tri\u1ebft gia, \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201ctri\u1ebft gia\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. V\u1ee3 \u00f4ng, Xanthippe lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef cau c\u00f3, g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng, v\u00e0 la l\u1ed1i \u00f4ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho \u00f4ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi: \u201c\u00d4ng c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?\u201d th\u00ec Sigmund Freud cha \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0nh ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0m sao bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ngh\u0129 g\u00ec? V\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u1eefa. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn nghe c\u00e1c b\u00e0, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n l\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec n\u1eefa?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3, gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ch\u1ed3ng hay v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Trong bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam Ng\u00e0i d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean b\u1eb1ng b\u00f9n \u0111\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, Ng\u00e0i l\u1ea1i d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng [4]. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea5t v\u00e0 x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u201chi\u1ec3u\u201d nhau, m\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i hy sinh v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng thu h\u00fat, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 say \u0111\u1eafm l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 th\u0103ng hoa h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5y, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft hy sinh. M\u00e0 hy sinh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 hy sinh ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, hy sinh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t minh ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/mark><\/strong> \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do khi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 lo t\u00ecm m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh, ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111em c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u00edch k\u1ef7 \u1ea5y v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, l\u00e0 \u0111em m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb th\u00f9 nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c nh\u1ea5t, gh\u00ea g\u1edbm v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. T\u1eeb \u0110i\u1ec3n Ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t. Nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n H\u1ed3ng \u0110\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Longman Dictionary of American English- New Edition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/health\/reacting-to-selfish-people#definition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.Xem S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf K\u00fd 2:7,18-22.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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