{"id":20438,"date":"2024-02-25T01:40:57","date_gmt":"2024-02-25T01:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=20438"},"modified":"2024-02-25T01:40:58","modified_gmt":"2024-02-25T01:40:58","slug":"nam-hay-nu-gioi-nao-chu-dong-ly-di-nhieu-hon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=20438","title":{"rendered":"NAM HAY N\u1eee, GI\u1edaI N\u00c0O CH\u1ee6 \u0110\u1ed8NG LY D\u1eca NHI\u1ec0U H\u01a0N?<\/strong>
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C\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111ang trong th\u1eddi gian th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 mong h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean m\u00e0 t\u00f4i nghe, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i: Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i\/ch\u1ed3ng em thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u0103ng hoa, d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb say n\u1eafng, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c. Ho\u1eb7c, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 ham m\u1edbi, n\u1edbi c\u0169, th\u00edch c\u1ee7a l\u1ea1, d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb h\u00fat h\u1ed3n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p. Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 thi\u1ebfu th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u0169 phu, v\u00e0 t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed5 t\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, ph\u00e1i m\u00e0y r\u00e2u l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 cho r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u201cchuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf!\u201d \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng, con trai th\u1ea5y g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p ai m\u00e0 ch\u1ea3 nh\u00ecn, ch\u1ea3 th\u00edch. \u201cNam v\u00f4 t\u1eedu nh\u01b0 k\u1ef3 v\u00f4 phong\u201d, x\u00e3 giao v\u00e0i ly c\u00f3 sao \u0111\u00e2u, n\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 h\u00f9 d\u1ecda v\u1eady th\u00f4i, b\u1ecf sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 b\u1ecf. Ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u1ee9 m\u1ea3i vui v\u1edbi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng, \u201cPh\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y nay ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ly d\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi!\u201d \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao, sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh mong r\u1eb1ng qu\u00fd \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n.      <\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG CON S\u1ed0 TH\u1ed0NG K\u00ca<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1, \u201cWhy Women Initiate Divorce More Often Than Men<\/strong>\u201d (T\u1ea1i Sao Ph\u1ee5 N\u1eef Ch\u1ee7 \u0110\u1ed9ng Ly D\u1ecb Nhi\u1ec1u H\u01a1n Nam Gi\u1edbi), \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n do Divorce.com ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y 19 th\u00e1ng 12, 2023 [1] \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho th\u1ea5y, tuy nam gi\u1edbi b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n, tranh c\u00e3i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt ra kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ly d\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai \u0111\u00e2m \u0111\u01a1n ly d\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-31% nam gi\u1edbi.
-69% n\u1eef gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-35% ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn ly d\u1ecb.
-20% nam gi\u1edbi. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n 13% so v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-6,3% nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3.\u00a0
-22% b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch do h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c.
-24% nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c ly d\u1ecb v\u00ec b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

a-Kh\u00f4ng \u00e2n \u00e1i m\u1ed9t n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-26,7% n\u1eef gi\u1edbi
-15,2% nam gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

b-Kh\u00f4ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c 5 n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-17,5% n\u1eef gi\u1edbi.
-8,7% nam gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.Nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng.
2.Thi\u1ebfu qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.
3.Thi\u1ebfu chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng.
4.Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed5 t\u01b0\u1eddng.
5.B\u1ecb h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n.\u00a0
6.T\u00ecm s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.
7.Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u00edt khi h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebeT LU\u1eacN C\u1ee6A KH\u1ea2O C\u1ee8U<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do tr\u00ean, cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn t\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ly d\u1ecb nh\u01b0 sau:  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-Nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tin r\u1eb1ng sau ly d\u1ecb, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n.<\/mark><\/strong>
2-Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec1u, s\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/mark><\/strong>
3-\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 ly d\u1ecb th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/mark><\/strong>
4-Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ly d\u1ecb l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n vui kh\u00e1c, thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd, v\u00e0 \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n mid-life-crisis (h\u1ed3i xu\u00e2n).<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfn S\u1ef9 Sebastian Ocklenburg, Ph.D, trong b\u00e0i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u201c8 New Findings on Love and Its Fragility\u201d (8 Kh\u00e1m Ph\u00e1 M\u1edbi V\u1ec1 T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau v\u00e0 S\u1ef1 D\u1ec5 V\u1ee1 C\u1ee7a N\u00f3) d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Saurabh Bhargava, kinh t\u1ebf gia, Gi\u1ea3ng S\u1ef1 Ph\u1ee5 Gi\u1ea3ng \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc Carnegie Mellon, Hoa K\u1ef3, c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Khoa h\u1ecdc T\u00e2m l\u00fd, <\/em>c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt: Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef y\u00eau d\u1ec5, ch\u00e1n nhanh h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi.<\/strong> [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mong mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, trong h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4i th\u00fac kh\u00e1c: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. Theo \u0111\u00f3, trong b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00eau g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i so v\u1edbi nam gi\u1edbi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 d\u00e0i, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u00ecn chung, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea1i suy gi\u1ea3m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nam gi\u1edbi. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cY\u00eau l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t \u00edt,<\/em>
V\u00ec m\u1ea5y khi y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau.<\/em>
Cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, song nh\u1eadn ch\u1eb3ng bao nhi\u00eau,<\/em>
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ee5, ho\u1eb7c th\u1edd \u01a1 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft.\u201d<\/em>
Y\u00eau – Xu\u00e2n Di\u1ec7u<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfp theo sau \u0111\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n

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-Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi.
-Nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u00e2u n\u0103m th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat.
-T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n n\u01a1i n\u1eef gi\u1edbi so v\u1edbi nam gi\u1edbi.
-Sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m b\u1ecb m\u1edd phai nhanh h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00c3Y L\u00c0 B\u1ea0N \u0110\u01af\u1edcNG C\u1ee6A NHAU<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 suy gi\u1ea3m ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng n\u01a1i ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eeda l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 kh\u00f3i\u201d. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n do n\u1eef gi\u1edbi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y nay, v\u1eabn theo ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ee7a Divorce.com, s\u1edf d\u0129 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ly d\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c cao h\u01a1n, thu nh\u1eadp nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00ec th\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c ly d\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p, h\u1ee3p hi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ly d\u1ecb, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ly d\u1ecb. C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb khinh mi\u1ec7t, ho\u1eb7c coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Trong khi ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng nam gi\u1edbi h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lo l\u1eafng, s\u0103n s\u00f3c, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i, ho\u1eb7c g\u1ea5p ba sau khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd v\u1eeba ch\u0103m nu\u00f4i con c\u00e1i, v\u1eeba s\u0103n s\u00f3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1eeba l\u00e0m vui l\u00f2ng ch\u1ed3ng. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y nay ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ly d\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, v\u00e0 b\u1ecb k\u1ebft \u00e1n n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1.<\/strong> M. Rosenfeld t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc Stanford, \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng trong 2.000 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tham gia cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn 69% nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c ly d\u1ecb l\u00e0 do ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, trong m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u1ed1i t\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m li\u00ean quan trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n sau \u0111\u00e2y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, l\u00e0m cho s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a nhau g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1ecb h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i du h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb n\u0103m 15 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p cao t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3. Ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ed5ng c\u0169ng cao h\u01a1n l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb. R\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc, ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 mang t\u00ednh quan li\u00eau, gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 quan. Kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n, khi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, ch\u1ecb b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n n\u1eefa cho ch\u1ecb, l\u00e0 ch\u1ecb sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba \u0111\u1ee9a con trai, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u1eady. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i cho ch\u1ecb. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u1ed7i t\u1ea1i ai? V\u00e0 li\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 do \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u1edf ch\u1ecb v\u1ee3, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebfu h\u1eb3n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd, anh ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ty, ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ch\u1ecb ta \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u sai v\u1ec1 hai ch\u1eef h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 chung th\u1ee7y. \u1ede m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, bi quan, t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00fang ra, ch\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ai? Nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam hi\u1ec7n nay, khi m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m \u1ea5u tr\u0129, thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i nam gi\u1edbi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c l\u1eef h\u00e0nh m\u00e0 hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng s\u00e1nh b\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00ean nhau:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Don\u2019t walk in front of me\u2026
I may not follow.
Don\u2019t walk behind me\u2026
I might not lead.<\/mark><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just walk beside me
and be my friend.<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i\u2026
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u1ebdo \u0111\u1ebdo theo sau.
\u0110\u1eebng \u0111i sau t\u00f4i\u2026
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1eb1m tay d\u1eaft b\u1ea1n.<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y s\u00f3ng b\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00ean t\u00f4i,
v\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

__________<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. https:\/\/divorce.com\/blog\/who-initiates-divorce-more\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-asymmetric-brain\/202312\/8-new-scientific-insights-on-love-and-how-it-fades-away<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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