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Trong c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c \u00a0gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y cho con m\u00ecnh?\u201d<\/strong> Trong khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129 ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i g\u00ec, th\u00ec anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cC\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng cho r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i\u201d.<\/strong> V\u00e0 anh \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e0 c\u00f4 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi con, m\u1ed9t g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1i \u00fat, gi\u1eefa l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con trai. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u201ctr\u1ecdng nam khinh n\u1eef\u201d hay v\u00ec qu\u00e1 chi\u1ec1u con, m\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng con trai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb, \u0111\u1ebfn em s\u0103n s\u00f3c, lo l\u1eafng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec d\u00f9 l\u1edbn hay nh\u1ecf trong nh\u00e0. Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0103n v\u00e0 l\u00eau l\u1ed5ng su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, d\u00f9 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 50 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec ra h\u1ed3n. L\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 r\u1ed3i b\u1ecb v\u1ee3 b\u1ecf. S\u1ed1ng nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 qua ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 em g\u00e1i. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb9 n\u00ean v\u1eabn gi\u1eed ti\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 cho m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i \u0111i nu\u00f4i b\u00e1o c\u00f4 c\u00e1i th\u1eb1ng v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng \u1ea5y. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e0i ba n\u0103m n\u1eefa c\u00f4 t\u00f4i ch\u1ebft th\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ra sao? R\u1ed3i anh k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: Ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i c\u00f4 t\u00f4i nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u n\u00f3, n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh n\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng t\u1ea1i n\u00f3 qu\u00e1 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng!<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u00ean c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p t\u1ea1i v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng. M\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean g\u1ea7n 30 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft lu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng, n\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t t\u00f4 m\u00ec. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 do m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m, m\u1eb9 lo cho t\u1eebng mi\u1ebfng c\u01a1m, manh \u00e1o, t\u1eebng gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0103n r\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tuy \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean n\u00e0y v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1eb9, v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u0103n x\u1ea3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. Anh ta v\u1eabn c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng x\u00e3 giao, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, hai c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng. Chi\u1ec1u con, th\u01b0\u01a1ng con nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C CON KHI N\u00c0O?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

-L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft<\/em>:<\/strong> C\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng cho r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u00e0m \u00fd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/em>:<\/strong> Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 thai v\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha bi\u1ebft v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 thai. Trong y khoa g\u1ecdi th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 thai k\u1ef3. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ph\u1ea3i \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9, suy ngh\u0129, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1eafp s\u1eeda sinh ra. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 thai gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-T\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/em>:<\/strong> Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, l\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00ean 3 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/mark><\/strong> Ca dao Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cD\u1ea1y con t\u1eeb thu\u1edf l\u00ean ba\u201d. C\u0169ng theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, th\u1eddi gian quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 5 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi.<\/mark><\/strong> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u00ednh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ef0A THEO T\u00c2M L\u00dd PH\u00c1T TRI\u1ec2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb? B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn nghe n\u00f3i c\u00e1c em khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Th\u1eadt ra, c\u00e1c em nh\u1ecf t\u1eeb 7 \u0111\u1ebfn 10 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng khi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho m\u00ecnh. <\/strong>Ch\u00fang s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n, b\u1ecb ch\u00ea, b\u1ecb coi th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00fang c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft bu\u1ed3n, bi\u1ebft c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Do \u0111\u00f3\u00a0r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9, anh ch\u1ecb, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khen v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n

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V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t, t\u1eeb \u00a08 tu\u1ed5i c\u00e1c em \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. <\/strong>Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3ng s\u1ea7m c\u1eeda khi kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd, la h\u00e9t, tr\u1ee3 m\u1eaft, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, n\u1eafm tay, d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n v\u1eeba b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00ednh th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y ch\u00fang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eed th\u00e1ch s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc sang tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00e1i, tr\u1ebb nam c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb n\u1eef. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 12 t\u1edbi 14 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n c\u1ea3. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t cho c\u00e1c em g\u00e1i. C\u00e1c tuy\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i ti\u1ebft d\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, trong khi \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c em l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, con g\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i 16 l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, c\u00e1c em trai g\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 em trai ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1edbm \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 15. N\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 16 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t hay hai n\u0103m sau.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C NH\u01af TH\u1ebe N\u00c0O?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

-B\u1eb1ng g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong>: S\u00e1ch Hu\u1ea5n Ca (Sirach) c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft: \u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft th\u00ec \u00f4ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ch\u1ebft, v\u00ec \u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i sau \u00f4ng m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng \u00f4ng\u201d (30:4).  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c cao nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. <\/strong>Ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c con noi theo m\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d (Gioan 13:15). Theo g\u01b0\u01a1ng Ch\u00faa, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n t\u00e2m linh, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/strong> N\u1ebfu con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng theo l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng. S\u1ebd coi nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m, t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/strong>: \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. S\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a trong \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng tai h\u1ea1i trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/strong> \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o chi\u1ec1u ch\u00fang h\u01a1n. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Tr\u00e1nh so s\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c con<\/strong>: D\u00f9 l\u00e0 con c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t cha m\u1eb9 sinh ra nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd con trai kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i. T\u00e2m l\u00fd anh, ch\u1ecb kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c em. N\u00ean ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a theo t\u1eebng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i, t\u1eebng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 t\u1eebng t\u00e2m t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn. Sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 so s\u00e1nh con n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con kh\u00e1c, khen con n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ch\u00ea con kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TR\u1eba EM H\u1eccC V\u00c0 PH\u00c1T TRI\u1ec2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

-Sau khi sinh, tr\u1ebb em h\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u01a1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng chung quanh.<\/p>\n\n\n

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-Nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gi\u00fap c\u00e1c em h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao thi\u1ec7p, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng m\u1edbi trong ph\u1ea1m vy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Tr\u1ebb em h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp qua vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 qua va ch\u1ea1p th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 qua s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm s\u1ee7a c\u00f3 th\u1ebf b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc 15 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00ean 6 tu\u1ed5i.  Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00e1c em h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng c\u0103n b\u1ea3n cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean g\u1ea7n 50 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 lo cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin, thi\u1ebfu \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean g\u1ea7n 30 tu\u1ed5i, tuy c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft (hay kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n) lu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tr\u1ee9ng, n\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t t\u00f4 m\u00ec l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, thu g\u1ecdn trong kh\u00f4ng gian c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c mang m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ty. Thanh ni\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i t\u1ea1i ai? V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con hay kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con! V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi con thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u1ea3 hai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, d\u1ea1y con khi con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00ean ba. D\u1ea1y con s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, song song v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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