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-S\u1ea7u \u0110\u00f4ng h\u00f4m qua \u0111em s\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 em la cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ebb.
-N\u00f3 ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i g\u00ec m\u00e0 em la n\u00f3?
-N\u00f3 b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t con B.
-Em kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 thang \u0111i\u1ec3m, B \u0111\u1ee9ng h\u1ea1ng nh\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? A,B,C. L\u00e0m g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i la n\u00f3, v\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con B th\u00f4i m\u00e0.
-Em mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c A t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Em mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ecfi, ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ee7 khoa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Em m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i n\u00f3 \u0103n h\u1ecdc, em c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n hy v\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00f4 em tr\u00ean ch\u1eafc c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u201cc\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n\u201d \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi con h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u1ea5t l\u1edbp, ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p th\u1ee7 khoa, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng danh d\u1ef1 c\u1ea5p qu\u1ed1c gia. Sau khi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ea3i, ph\u1ea3i, ph\u1ea3i\u2026Th\u1eadt ra, nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai, tr\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng cho c\u1ea3 con c\u00e1i l\u1eabn cha m\u1eb9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e1c s\u1ef9 T\u00e2m Th\u1ea7n Jingduan Yang, m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0 the Fourth Military Medical University, China; Oxford University, UK; Thomas Jefferson University v\u00e0 Arizona University t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3… Trong b\u00e0i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed cao h\u01a1n\u201d[1],\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a Alexandra Robbins t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc \u2013 danh hi\u1ec7u cao nh\u1ea5t \u2013 t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Yale, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec, v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, theo \u00f4ng trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u00c0NH T\u00cdCH V\u00c0 C\u0102NG TH\u1eb2NG<\/h4>\n\n\n
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Theo B\u00e1c s\u1ef9 Yang, c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng g\u00e2y ra tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u1edf c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch qu\u00e1 cao.<\/strong> \u00c1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1i \u0111a, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng\u2026 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7n Y T\u1ebf Qu\u1ed1c Gia, \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh c\u00f3 1.100 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u1ef1 t\u1eed m\u1ed7i n\u0103m v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n 24.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/strong> Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u1eef li\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y khi s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh, h\u1ecdc ph\u00ed v\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t t\u0103ng, t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed \u1edf thanh ni\u00ean tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 15-24 \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng g\u1ea5p ba l\u1ea7n k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1950. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u d\u1ef1a theo t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a B\u00e1c s\u1ef9 Yang:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo Philly Voice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–T\u1ea1i University of Pennsylvania n\u0103m 2017, s\u00e1u sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi v\u00ec t\u1ef1 t\u1eed trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian 13 th\u00e1ng.<\/strong>
–Cornell University c\u00f3 s\u00e1u v\u1ee5 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed trong n\u0103m h\u1ecdc 2009-2010.<\/strong>
–N\u0103m 2003-2004, n\u0103m sinh vi\u00ean \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc New York \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea3y l\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/strong>
–N\u0103m 2018, m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean y khoa n\u0103m th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa t\u1ea1i NYU \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch nhau 5 ng\u00e0y.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng theo Vi\u1ec7n Y T\u1ebf Qu\u1ed1c Gia, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111i sinh m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng trong to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 Hoa K\u1ef3, t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng 28% trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian 17 n\u0103m t\u1eeb 1999 \u0111\u1ebfn 2016. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c chi\u1ebfm t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 cao h\u01a1n. T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a Business Insider t\u1eeb Vi\u1ec7n An To\u00e0n v\u00e0 S\u1ee9c Kh\u1ecfe Lao \u0110\u1ed9ng Qu\u1ed1c Gia cho bi\u1ebft, k\u1ef9 s\u01b0 h\u00e0ng h\u1ea3i, b\u00e1c s\u0129, nha s\u0129, b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00fa y v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5t.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 t\u1eed v\u00ec tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, nh\u00f3m tu\u1ed5i g\u00e2y t\u1eed vong h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1eb1m trong kho\u1ea3ng 15 – 29 tu\u1ed5i. <\/strong>Theo b\u00e1o Ti\u1ec1n Phong, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1ef1 t\u1eed l\u00e0 do \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. C\u0169ng theo t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u b\u00e1o n\u00e0y tr\u00edch d\u1eabn d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Qu\u1ef9 Nhi \u0110\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean H\u1ee3p Qu\u1ed1c (UNICEF), kho\u1ea3ng 8-29% tr\u1ebb em trong tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam n\u00f3i chung, \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 3 tri\u1ec7u thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean m\u1eafc c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh li\u00ean quan v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 20% trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 y t\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. [2]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea n\u0103m 2019, s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam kho\u1ea3ng 7,5 trong s\u1ed1 100.000. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3m trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn cao h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 2000.[3] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

TRI\u1ec6U CH\u1ee8NG TR\u1ea6M C\u1ea2M<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn ra v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ra b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n\n\n

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T\u00e2m l\u00fd:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, lo l\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c \u201ctr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng\u201d.
– B\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu.
– C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, bi quan, v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c.
– C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i.\u00a0
– M\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch.
– Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ec3 l\u00fd:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kh\u00f3 ng\u1ee7, m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7 ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ee7 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u.
– L\u00ean c\u00e2n, xu\u1ed1ng k\u00fd, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng.
– Trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec7t m\u00e3, \u0111au nh\u1ee9c c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u.
– T\u1ef1 t\u1eed ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t \u0111a d\u1ea1ng \u1edf m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NGUY\u00caN NH\u00c2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n methyl h\u00f3a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a B\u00e1c s\u1ef9 Yang, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng do r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n methyl h\u00f3a.<\/strong> Thi\u1ebfu methyl h\u00f3a, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 serotonin v\u00e0 dopamine th\u1ea5p, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u1ea1nh tranh trong th\u1ec3 thao v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3i chung. \u00a0\u00a0B\u00e1c s\u1ef9 Yang \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 William Walsh c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u 30.000 b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n methyl h\u00f3a. \u01af\u1edbc t\u00ednh c\u00f3 38% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m n\u1eb7ng do thi\u1ebfu methyl h\u00f3a, trong khi 20% kh\u00e1c b\u1ecb methyl h\u00f3a qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c do thi\u1ebfu folate. [4]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1i K\u1ef7<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1i k\u1ef7 (Narcissistic) l\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh: \u0110\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t, th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t, gi\u1ea7u sang nh\u1ea5t\u2026 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh g\u1ed3m nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 cao v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u00f9ng b\u00e1i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e1i k\u1ef7 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho l\u00e0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c g\u00f3p \u00fd n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do t\u00ednh c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd th\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u00e9p m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ec7t qu\u1ec7 t\u00e2m l\u1ef1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng th\u00eam c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea9m \u0111\u1ecbnh do nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ebb em, h\u1ecdc sinh, sinh vi\u00ean b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m hay g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn t\u1ef1 t\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t khi b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i, \u0111a s\u1ed1 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh, sinh vi\u00ean r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 do th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eb7p \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, thi c\u1eed, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 cao c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m ho\u1eb7c hay bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh, sinh vi\u00ean, ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 do t\u1ef1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/strong> Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft t\u1ef1 t\u1eed li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng \u00e1i k\u1ef7 c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb thua k\u00e9m, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb thua cu\u1ed9c\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00d3P \u00dd V\u00c0 H\u01af\u1edaNG D\u1eaaN<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Trong c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 hai lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u \u00fd, v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i: Kho\u00e1n tr\u1eafng cho h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c \u0110\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kho\u00e1n tr\u1eafng cho h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 hi\u1ec7n nay \u1edf \u00c2u M\u1ef9, m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam l\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c kho\u00e1n tr\u1eafng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh cho h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m r\u1ea5t tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng.<\/strong> N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u00e0m n\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/strong>: \u201c\u0110\u1ee9c nh\u00e2n th\u1eafng s\u1ed1\u201d. Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh. H\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00ed kh\u00f4n th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n m\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi quan ni\u1ec7m kho\u00e1n tr\u1eafng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i cho h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00f4 l\u00fd m\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft oan nghi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ed \u00f3c th\u00f4ng minh, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng l\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u00e2n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf ban cho t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng di truy\u1ec1n, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc: th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u00ean con c\u00e1i. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o \u0111ang \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng con m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3i c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. N\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. https:\/\/baomai.blogspot.com\/2024\/05\/nhung-nguoi-thanh-at-co-nguy-co-tu-tu.html<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. https:\/\/tienphong.vn\/hoc-sinh-tu-tu-vi-ap-luc-hoc-tap-do-nguoi-lon-stress-post1428466.tpo<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. https:\/\/www.statista.com\/statistics\/702116\/vietnam-crude-suicide-rate\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. https:\/\/baomai.blogspot.com\/2024\/05\/nhung-nguoi-thanh-at-co-nguy-co-tu-tu.html<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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