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B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng anh mong nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi gian cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o, hay m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean.<\/strong> Anh k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u00e3 cho anh bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng trong vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Mu\u1ed1n \u0103n th\u00ec \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 th\u00ec ng\u1ee7, khi b\u1ec7nh c\u00f3 b\u00e1c s\u1ef9, y t\u00e1 t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh ch\u1eefa ch\u1ea1y. Kh\u00f4ng phi\u1ec1n h\u00e0 con ch\u00e1u. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 con r\u1ec3, con d\u00e2u m\u1eb7t n\u1eb7ng, m\u1eb7t nh\u1eb9 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 anh t\u1ea3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i khi th\u0103m b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n cao tu\u1ed5i t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o ho\u1eb7c trung t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean.<\/strong> C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u1ea5y c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ecfe, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 \u0111ang mang nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n n\u00ean \u00edt khi th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 vui. C\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00fac ra v\u1ec1, nh\u00ecn \u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh: \u201cSao mau v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf? Kh\u00f4ng n\u00e1n l\u1ea1i \u00edt ph\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay sao?\u201d Nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch qua nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u sau:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng bao l\u00e2u t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o (nursing home)? Con s\u1ed1 trung b\u00ecnh th\u1eddi gian t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o kho\u1ea3ng 13 th\u00e1ng t\u1edbi h\u01a1n 2 n\u0103m, t\u00f9y theo m\u1ed7i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p.<\/strong> [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1eddi gian k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u0103n s\u00f3c t\u1ea1i gia (care home residents) gi\u1eefa n\u0103m 2021 v\u00e0 2022 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i kho\u1ea3ng 7 n\u0103m \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 65-69. 2,9 n\u0103m \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 90 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi qu\u00ed b\u00e0; v\u00e0 t\u1eeb 6,3 n\u0103m \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 65-69 tu\u1ed5i, 2, 2 n\u0103m \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 90 ho\u1eb7c h\u01a1n cho qu\u00ed \u00f4ng. <\/strong>[2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u0103n kho\u0103n, thao th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t cao ni\u00ean \u1edf M\u1ef9? R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda cha m\u1eb9, con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 d\u00e2u\/r\u1ec3 n\u1eefa. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee5c hay ly d\u1ecb v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. V\u1eady c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o, c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0? C\u00f3 th\u00ec sao v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec sao? \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u0103n s\u00f3c t\u1ea1i gia:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n nay, vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, hy sinh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n, v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a anh, ch\u1ecb, em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian<\/em>.<\/strong> Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho v\u1ee3, cho ch\u1ed3ng, cho con, v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 hy sinh vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho cha m\u1eb9. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n do nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd.<\/em> Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng ho\u00e0i v\u1ecdng, b\u1eb1ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. H\u1ecd r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 hay t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho nh\u1eefng con ch\u00e1u l\u1edbn l\u00ean ho\u1eb7c sinh ra t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3 bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con d\u00e2u, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3. <\/strong>H\u1ecd thu\u1ed9c l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p th\u1ee5 n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a T\u00e2y Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c giao ti\u1ebfp, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0110\u00f4ng Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u00e0m sao b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng x\u00edch m\u00edch x\u1ea3y ra, nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? B\u00eanh ai? B\u1ecf ai? Nghe ai? Ai \u0111\u00fang? Ai sai??? Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng chung.<\/strong> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi \u00f4ng b\u00e0. Nhi\u1ec1u khi \u00f4ng b\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m quy\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn, m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed \u00f4ng ch\u00e1u, b\u00e0 ch\u00e1u nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y h\u1ed3i c\u00f2n \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n<\/em>.<\/strong> Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh l\u00e3ng tr\u00ed hay m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed nh\u1edb (Alzheimer’s disease), run r\u1ea9y (Parkinson), ho\u1eb7c tai bi\u1ebfn g\u00e2y b\u1ea1i li\u1ec7t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c to\u00e0n th\u00e2n. Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y khoa, chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean.<\/strong> Sau \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con s\u0103n s\u00f3c cho m\u1eb9:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEm \u1edf v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 lo cho m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac tr\u00fat h\u01a1i th\u1edf n\u00ean em bi\u1ebft n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 em c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft lu\u00f4n n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111u\u1ed1i s\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 lu\u00f4n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng cu\u1ed1i. C\u0169ng may hai m\u1eb9 con \u1edf v\u1edbi nhau n\u00ean em lo cho m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian m\u00ecnh c\u00f3. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 n\u00ean c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e2m g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9. Ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao \u00edt ai bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 30% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 ch\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh.[3]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em<\/em>.<\/strong> N\u1ebfu trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 2, 3, 4, ho\u1eb7c 5 anh ch\u1ecb em th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00f9n \u0111\u1ea9y, b\u00ec t\u1ecb v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai tr\u00f4ng coi cha m\u1eb9? Quan ni\u1ec7m \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng l\u00e0 con trai c\u1ea3 hay con trai \u00fat. Nh\u01b0ng khi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con trai th\u00ec sao? Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0: \u201cCha chung kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00f3c\u201d, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 con n\u00e0o th\u01b0\u01a1ng cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf chung th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 s\u1ebd g\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c anh, ch\u1ecb, em kh\u00e1c. <\/strong>K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00e0o x\u00e1o, ghen t\u1ef5, so s\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a. Anh, ch\u1ecb, em kh\u00f4ng lo cho cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec9nh ch\u1ee9? Sao l\u1ea1i kho\u00e1n tr\u1eafng cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i? Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u0103m h\u1ecfi, qu\u00e0 c\u00e1p, khi y\u1ebfu \u0111au c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed1c thang, s\u0103n s\u00f3c, nh\u01b0ng khi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ebft th\u00ec kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, v\u1eadt v\u00e3, r\u1ed3i lo ma chay linh \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong>. H\u1ecd gi\u1ea3 h\u00ecnh, b\u00f4i b\u00e1c nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi ca dao c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cS\u1ed1ng th\u00ec con ch\u1eb3ng cho \u0103n,
Ch\u1ebft th\u00ec x\u00f4i th\u1ecbt, l\u00e0m v\u0103n t\u1ebf ru\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1eedi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u00e0 v\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a Vi\u1ec7t Nam, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/strong> \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec1 cao ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu. \u0110\u00f4i khi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, c\u00e2u n\u1ec7 v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0m ti\u1ebfu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ea1o hi\u1ebfu. <\/strong>
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u00e3ng tr\u1edf v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed7i khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c g\u1eedi cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o.<\/strong> Ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o, c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng \u1edf nh\u00e0. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i xum h\u1ecdp gia \u0111\u00ecnh tuy th\u01b0a th\u1edbt nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u sao v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c tinh th\u1ea7n cho tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o, c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean th\u00ec nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a con ch\u00e1u v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n s\u1ebd th\u01b0a th\u1edbt v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i v\u00e0 qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng.<\/strong> V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean Vi\u1ec7t Nam, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ecb. C\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf kh\u1ecfi sinh ho\u1ea1t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u01b0 t\u00f9 t\u1ed9i. M\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p trong m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, n\u0103n n\u1ec9 con cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m sao dung h\u00f2a: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTr\u1ebb c\u1eady cha, gi\u00e0 c\u1eady con\u201d. C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef n\u00e0y tho\u1ea1t nghe nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m suy ngh\u0129, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ngay trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta. Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i v\u0103n minh, t\u00e2n ti\u1ebfn, t\u1ef1 do v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 d\u00f9 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0o, n\u1ec1n v\u0103n minh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a con ch\u00e1u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 thi\u00ean ph\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u b\u1eb1ng nh\u00e0:<\/strong><\/em> \u0110\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf nh\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda. Cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i v\u00ec s\u1ed1ng xa con ch\u00e1u. Con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp tr\u1ea3 hi\u1ebfu cho cha m\u1eb9. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, anh ch\u1ecb em thay phi\u00ean nhau \u0111\u00f3n ti\u1ebfp cha m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn lo ph\u1ea7n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cha m\u1eb9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cC\u00f4ng cha nh\u01b0 n\u00fai Th\u00e1i S\u01a1n<\/em>
Ngh\u0129a m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong ngu\u1ed3n ch\u1ea3y ra\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y khi sinh th\u00e0nh, nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng
\u201cl\u00e0m con ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ebfu\u201d. S\u1ed1ng sao \u201ccho tr\u00f2n ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u1ebfu ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu\u00ea nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1ea1i gia cho cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0. Ho\u1eb7c xin nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u00f9y theo m\u1ed7i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 khi s\u0103n s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0, \u0111\u00f4i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh v\u00ec qu\u00e1 y\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 ng\u1ed3i d\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ec3u ti\u1ec7n hay \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eafm r\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1edbi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec ch\u00ednh con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00e2ng, b\u1ebf b\u1ed3ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap v\u00e0i ti\u1ebfng ban ng\u00e0y r\u1ed3i v\u1ec1, thu\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c th\u00eam 8-10 ti\u1ebfng 1 ng\u00e0y th\u00ec \u0111\u00eam khuya l\u1ea1i ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f2 … V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n lo v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh t\u00e9 ng\u00e3, g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch: \u201cL\u1ef1c b\u1ea5t t\u00f2ng t\u00e2m\u201d.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o:<\/strong> <\/em>Khi cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a y khoa. Ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn g\u1eedi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 v\u00e0 b\u00e0n t\u00ednh v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/strong> V\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0, m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 b\u00e1c s\u1ef9, y t\u00e1 v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean t\u00fac tr\u1ef1c 24 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c thu\u1ed1c men, c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n, lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn (dilemma). Vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 hay g\u1eedi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ta s\u1ed1ng sao kh\u00f4ng th\u1eb9n v\u1edbi Tr\u1eddi, v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 sinh th\u00e0nh, d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau m\u00ecnh.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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