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Chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra c\u0169ng h\u01a1i n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t hai cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 nghe v\u00e0 m\u1eddi tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh \u1ea5y th\u1eadt ra h\u1ecd \u0111ang gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ec3 mong c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n kinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o nh\u1ea7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u1ea5y.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u00e2n c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean, t\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u, khi m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng trong l\u00fac trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2n la n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n mua b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m nh\u00e2n th\u1ecd. B\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ednh cho \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 n\u0103m. Ti\u1ec1n tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n \u0111\u00f3ng h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0 \u00f4ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n l\u1edbn t\u1eeb c\u00f4ng ty b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec9nh cho con ch\u00e1u, lo h\u1eadu s\u1ef1, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n kh\u1ecfe th\u00ec \u0111i du l\u1ecbch ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y, ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c. Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u00e3ng b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i b\u00e1o cho \u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. L\u00fd do g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng r\u1ea5t gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00ec s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng m\u1ea5y n\u0103m nay b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ra v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Qua \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u00a0<\/a><\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u0169ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0. Trong bu\u1ed5i sinh ho\u1ea1t Group Therapy, b\u00e0 Tuy\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n r\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng n\u1ed5 trong nh\u00f3m \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u00e0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1eddi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb b\u00e0 l\u00e0 hoa kh\u00f4i c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng, xong trung h\u1ecdc b\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 theo nghi\u1ec7p may c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1edd thi\u00ean khi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t designer c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ee3 may n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng. T\u00e0i n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 theo b\u00e0 sang t\u1eadn Hoa K\u1ef3, v\u00e0 b\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong th\u1eddi gian s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Hawaii. M\u1ea3i m\u00ea v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, d\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 vui v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tai n\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e0n ph\u1ebf, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng walker. R\u1eddi Hawaii, b\u00e0 v\u1ec1 California s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng may ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ra \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hai c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nghe nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u1ed1t, v\u00e0 khi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng lo gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, khi c\u00e1c ch\u00fang b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf tay c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eafc v\u1edbi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 Tuy\u1ebft, tuy v\u1eafn t\u1eaft nh\u01b0ng th\u00e2m th\u00fay nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng: \u201cTr\u1ed3ng \u1edbt th\u00ec \u0103n \u1edbt. Tr\u1ed3ng cam th\u00ec \u0103n cam.\u201d \u00dd c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 l\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, th\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. Ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 b\u00e1c trai n\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 c\u0169ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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R\u00fat ra t\u1eeb hai b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc tr\u00ean, v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u1ebb, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111em hai c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y ra l\u00e0m th\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd: \u201cN\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m gi\u1ea7u v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u01b0u ti\u00ean n\u00e0o?\u201d \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con\u201d<\/strong>. Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u1eabn d\u00e0nh \u01b0u ti\u00ean ch\u1ecdn ti\u1ec1n, ch\u1ecdn gi\u1ea7u sang, ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n mua ti\u00ean c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d Con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u201ctr\u1ed3ng \u1edbt th\u00ec \u0103n \u1edbt. Tr\u1ed3ng cam th\u00ec \u0103n cam,\u201d sau n\u00e0y.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi ch\u00fang ta b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai cho con c\u00e1i, vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed3ng cam hay tr\u1ed3ng \u1edbt trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc r\u1ea5t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Tr\u1ebb con tuy nh\u1ecf, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t tinh nhanh nh\u1eadn ra gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i, chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ngo\u00e0i ra, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 cha l\u1eabn m\u1eb9. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai con c\u00e1i.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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V\u1eady, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9:<\/p>\n\n\n\n