{"id":24758,"date":"2025-04-05T15:41:14","date_gmt":"2025-04-05T15:41:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=24758"},"modified":"2025-04-05T15:41:16","modified_gmt":"2025-04-05T15:41:16","slug":"cha-an-man-con-khat-nuoc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=24758","title":{"rendered":"CHA \u0102N M\u1eb6N, CON KH\u00c1T N\u01af\u1edaC!<\/strong>
TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/span>"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cD\u00f4! D\u00f4! D\u00f4!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cL\u00e2u l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i ta m\u1edbi nh\u1eadu m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n.
Nh\u1eadu m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00ec nh\u1eadu cho l\u00e2u l\u00e2u\u201d.<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ed3i c\u1ea3 b\u00e0n l\u1ea1i n\u00e2ng ly h\u00f4 to: \u201cD\u00f4! D\u00f4! D\u00f4!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa nh\u1eadu m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong l\u1ea7n v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea th\u0103m gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eeba qua. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa nh\u1eadu nh\u01b0 v\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a giao l\u01b0u \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam. T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u1eadu \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00fd h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng. Nh\u1eadu m\u1eebng v\u00ec v\u1eeba k\u00fd h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng. Nh\u1eadu v\u00ec giao l\u01b0u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Nh\u1eadu m\u1eebng sinh nh\u1eadt\u2026 V\u0103n h\u00f3a giao l\u01b0u g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi v\u0103n h\u00f3a nh\u1eadu. V\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a nh\u1eadu g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ai c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb lung lay, nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng chia ly, v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i nheo nh\u00f3c!<\/p>\n\n\n

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Nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, c\u00f2n h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 sau n\u00e0y n\u1eefa th\u00ec sao? Say s\u01b0a r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi con v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00e1u n\u1eefa, \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi  th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ed von qua c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: \u201c\u0110\u1eddi cha \u0103n m\u1eb7n, \u0111\u1eddi con kh\u00e1t n\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00eam: \u201c\u0110\u1eddi ch\u00e1u \u0111i ti\u1ec3u\u201d. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n sau \u0111\u00e2y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng xa l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ebfm th\u1ea5y trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u00ea tha r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, trai g\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed5 t\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d4ng C\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh g\u1ed3m 4 trai v\u00e0 1 g\u00e1i. \u00d4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e1t r\u01b0\u1ee3u. M\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 kinh ni\u00ean v\u00e0 \u1edf v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1i (chronic stage, and end stages), d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec \u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean 3 trong 4 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e1u ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra v\u1edbi h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1eadm ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n (Mild developmental delays), v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c y h\u1ecdc, con c\u00e1i hay \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n, thai nhi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u nhi\u1ec1u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 say x\u1ec9n khi mang thai th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a thai nhi, \u201cfetal alcohol syndrome\u201d, l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e3o b\u1ed9, th\u1ea7n kinh c\u1ee7a thai nhi khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb sinh ra b\u1ecb ch\u1eadm ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, ngu \u0111\u1ea7n, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt b\u1ea9m sinh ..v..v.. v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft s\u1edbm. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i qua t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan x\u1ea5u, t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i trong ph\u1ea1m vy gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, t\u1ea1o g\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ea5u trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea9y ra cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con, ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o? Do di truy\u1ec1n hay \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e2m l\u00fd? Do ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay do ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f2n t\u00f9y v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a khoa h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng qua c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng c\u0169ng cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00ccNH \u1ea2NH TR\u00c1I NG\u01af\u1ee2C V\u1ec0 NG\u01af\u1edcI CHA<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha t\u1ed1t, hy sinh v\u00ec v\u1ee3 con kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, th\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao; \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, khi c\u00e1c con b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng:    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.
5 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm.
6 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.
8 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u.
10 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc.
12 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec h\u1ebft! B\u1ed1 qu\u00e1 gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1edb g\u00ec v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.
14 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi r\u1ed3i! \u0110\u1eebng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u00f4ng \u1ea5y.
21 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7 v\u00e0 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c!
25 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 gi\u00e0 r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.
30 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n, c\u1ea7n h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ed1.
35 tu\u1ed5i: T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc xem sao \u0111\u00e3.
40 tu\u1ed5i: Chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f3 qu\u00e1! H\u1ecfi xem b\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00ec b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00a0kinh nghi\u1ec7m.
50 tu\u1ed5i: B\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa! Ti\u1ebfc qu\u00e1, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u1ed1, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Song song v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c tr\u00ean, th\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u1ecb d\u00ednh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cha c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi. Ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha say x\u1ec9n t\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp v\u1ee3 con v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ccNH TR\u1ea0NG NGHI\u1ec6N R\u01af\u1ee2U<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u01b0\u1ee3u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. U\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t. Theo kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u th\u00ec u\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ly r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ecf c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tim m\u1ea1ch, tuy nhi\u00ean u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe.<\/p>\n\n\n

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R\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i r\u01b0\u1ee3u m\u1ea1nh, l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho say, m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u1ec7n. Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, theo AI Overview \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh 28,9 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 12 v\u00e0 gi\u00e0 h\u01a1n. 10,2% \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u (AUD) trong n\u0103m qua, g\u1ed3m 12,1% \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, con trai v\u00e0 8,3% \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0n, con g\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 10% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u0169ng cho bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn r\u01b0\u1ee3u nh\u01b0 b\u1ec7nh s\u01a1 gan (liver cirrhosis) \u0111\u00e3 gia t\u0103ng. 7,3 trong s\u1ed1 100.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft trong d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 n\u0103m 2019, so v\u1edbi 4,3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 100.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 2000.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng theo AI Overview khi h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 \u201cTh\u1ed1ng k\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam\u201d (Statistic of alcoholism in Vietnam) <\/em>\u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam cao, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf nam gi\u1edbi.\u00a0 Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea n\u0103m 2021 cho bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 64% \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 10% \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u trong 30 n\u0103m qua. Theo The WHO (T\u1ed5 Ch\u1ee9c Y T\u1ebf Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi), \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u kho\u1ea3ng 31-50%. H\u01a1n 40.800 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn r\u01b0\u1ee3u trong s\u1ed1 7,5% nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u1eed vong.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a WHO, th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 c\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam u\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 beer (91,5%), ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u n\u1eb7ng nh\u01b0 whisky, vodka, rum, gin, tequila, brandy, v\u00e0 (7,7%) c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i r\u01b0\u1ee3u chi\u1ebft xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nho (0,8%). C\u0169ng theo kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a WHO n\u0103m 2025, ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u nhi\u1ec1u thu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00c1 Ch\u00e2u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng 25 tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Trung b\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi u\u1ed1ng 11,4 liters m\u1ed7i n\u0103m. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u di truy\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 r\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh kho\u1ea3ng 50% \u0111\u1ebfn 60% trong gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, con trai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1eacU QU\u1ea2 C\u1ee6A R\u01af\u1ee2U<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a r\u01b0\u1ee3u thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? U\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft, thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi say.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i giao ti\u1ebfp c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3, c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. V\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 \u0111au tim, c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u1ec1 gan, ung th\u01b0, thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ec1 \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tai n\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c. Say r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u00f2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i \u00e1c, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd, nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1eadm ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed nh\u1edb. Ngo\u00e0i ra r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u00f2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, th\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh l\u00fd, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1c.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u khi\u1ebfn cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd: \u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha t\u1eaft th\u1edf, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ch\u1ebft v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd\u201d (Hu\u1ea5n Ca 30:4).<\/em><\/mark><\/strong> Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 g\u00ec n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u00ednh \u00edch k\u1ef7, th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c tai h\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho con ch\u00e1u? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ta r\u1eb1ng nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ti\u00eau tan t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 sao?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00c0M C\u00c1CH N\u00c0O \u0110\u1ec2 CH\u1eeaA?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi say x\u1ec9n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. N\u00ean d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch xa r\u1eddi nh\u1eefng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111em ta \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, do b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 r\u1ee7 r\u00ea, do ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, do th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 stress, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o. Tuy kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nghi\u1ec7n, th\u00ec sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i g\u1ee3i \u00fd ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb. G\u1ed3m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n