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Trong bu\u1ed5i ghi h\u00ecnh cho ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh Gia \u0110\u00ecnh T\u00f4i t\u1ea1i Clara Studio s\u1ed1 m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t, anh ch\u1ecb em ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u201cngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh\u201d. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 danh d\u1ef1… Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ly d\u1ecb!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nam gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng th\u00f3i tr\u0103ng hoa ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00fat h\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1eafc cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i c\u0103n nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, T\u00fa X\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u00f3i tr\u0103ng hoa c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cM\u1ed9t tr\u00e0, m\u1ed9t r\u01b0\u1ee3u, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0,
Ba c\u00e1i l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng n\u00f3 qu\u1ea5y ta.
Ch\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o hay th\u1ee9 n\u1ea5y,
C\u00f3 ch\u0103ng ch\u1eeba r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u1edbi ch\u1eeba tr\u00e0\u201d.<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai n\u1ebfu v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o c\u00e1i th\u00f3i kh\u00f3 ch\u1eeba, kh\u00f3 b\u1ecf n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 b\u1ec7nh. N\u00f3 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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G\u1ecdi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd l\u1eabn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb th\u00f4i th\u00fac b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a th\u00fa vui nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c. H\u1ecd t\u1ef1 coi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 danh v\u1ecdng, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, s\u1ee9c quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, nh\u01b0ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd: thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ham m\u1edbi, n\u1edbi c\u0169, gian d\u1ed1i v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 h\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1m d\u1ed7. Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng minh ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n l\u00e3nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u00f9 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi T\u00fa X\u01b0\u01a1ng hay th\u1eddi nay n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e3i v\u00e3, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng ly d\u1ecb. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1edf Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn 20-40% c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ly d\u1ecb. Trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd, 61% v\u1eabn \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, so v\u1edbi 34% \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c ly th\u00e2n.<\/mark><\/strong> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 tr\u00ean the American Psychological Association. Nov. 6, 2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7n Gallup, 62% ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ly d\u1ecb v\u00ec l\u00fd do ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, trong khi 31% coi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a National Institutes of Health cho bi\u1ebft 88% c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chia ly trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00f9ng l\u1eafm n\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho nhau th\u00ec c\u1ee9 cho nhau m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng, sau \u0111\u00f3 coi nhau nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1edbi nghe qua ai c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, v\u0103n minh v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i coi nhau nh\u01b0 anh em, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8?<\/mark><\/strong> Tho\u00e1ng ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i ng\u1ee5y bi\u1ec7n. M\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa mang m\u00e0u s\u1eafc kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i. Khi s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nhau, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi nhau, kh\u00f4ng coi nhau nh\u01b0 anh em, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00ec sau khi \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb, m\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb v\u00ec l\u00fd do ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n

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Sau \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 th\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh sau n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ee9 hai sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n, y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, c\u00e3i v\u00e3, n\u0103n n\u1ef7 v\u00e0 sau c\u00f9ng x\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201c\u0111\u00e1nh ghen\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn nh\u00e0 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch, l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng ch\u1eedi r\u1ee7a, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1ed3ng cho ch\u1ecb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec9a mai: \u201cCh\u1ecb coi l\u1ea1i ch\u1ecb k\u00eca, v\u1eeba x\u1ea5u x\u00ed, v\u1eeba chua ngoa. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 gi\u1eadt ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 b\u1ea3o tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb cho ch\u1ecb. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e2u d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n l\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4i d\u01b0 s\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp m\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t tin n\u00e0y t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecb bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 thai v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb r\u1ed3i!\u201d<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u1ee9 hai tuy c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i. T\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch, ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng, k\u00eau g\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng m\u00e0 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn n\u00f3i cho ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u00e1c con. Nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng tr\u0103ng hoa. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eadn ch\u00ecm con thuy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t h\u0103ng h\u00e1i v\u00e0 xem nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n s\u1edbm ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ed1i l\u01b0\u01a1ng duy\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd vi\u1ec7n d\u1eabn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do, v\u00e0 b\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ly d\u1ecb, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y l\u1ea1c quan. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t v\u1ee3, k\u1ebb m\u1ea5t ch\u1ed3ng, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ai vui v\u1ebb.<\/strong> T\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ba \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. <\/strong>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh m\u1edbi r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u201cc\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh, canh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ecdt\u201d. Theo t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ly d\u1ecb l\u1ea7n hai ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea7n ba. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, theo nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u, n\u1eef gi\u1edbi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua thi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n sau khi ly d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ly d\u1ecb v\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ly d\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i, g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn, l\u00e0m tan n\u00e1t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh chu c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nu\u00f4i con, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 th\u00e2m t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 xem nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf c\u00e1i quy\u1ec1n cao c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cha ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3 cha l\u1eabn m\u1eb9, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/mark> M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/strong>. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft t\u1ef1 s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u00f4ng \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu cha v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t m\u1eb9! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb t\u1ef1 ty, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 ly d\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong sinh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m ng\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec n\u1ed9i dung b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mong n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf m\u1ecdn cho nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 h\u00fa tim v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, v\u1eeba \u201cmu\u1ed1n c\u01a1m\u201d, v\u1eeba \u201cth\u00e8m ph\u1edf\u201d. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1c v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/strong> H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCh\u00e1n c\u01a1m th\u00e8m ph\u1edf\u201d hay \u201c\u0110\u1ee9ng n\u00fai n\u00e0y tr\u00f4ng n\u00fai n\u1ecd\u201d lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n; c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00f3i tr\u0103ng hoa ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng chung th\u1ee7y. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201cTha nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean\u201d c\u1ee7a n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu trung th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng chung th\u1ee7y trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 g\u00e2y ra do h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh:  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh l\u00e0m r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng ni\u1ec1m tin trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. <\/strong>N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan ban \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb t\u00e2m l\u00fd chung: \u201cM\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t t\u00edn, v\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t tin.\u201d (Ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam)<\/p>\n\n\n

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Gia t\u0103ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3i v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t.<\/strong> \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 do t\u00e2m l\u00fd ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ly d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m tin:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn do nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 t\u00e2m linh, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c do nh\u1eefng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9, tuy nhi\u00ean, ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0y trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb chao \u0111\u1ea3o.<\/strong> \u201cChim s\u1ee3 c\u00e0nh cong\u201d hay t\u00e2m l\u00fd ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng sau nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i \u00a0ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 sau khi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201ctha nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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*B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00ednh t\u1eeb b\u00e0i nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn tr\u00ean Fb: Duyet Tran, April 23, 2021.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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