{"id":25886,"date":"2025-08-01T02:51:49","date_gmt":"2025-08-01T02:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=25886"},"modified":"2025-08-01T02:51:51","modified_gmt":"2025-08-01T02:51:51","slug":"nguyen-nhan-va-hau-qua-cua-ngoai-tinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanhoimoi.org\/?p=25886","title":{"rendered":"NGUY\u00caN NH\u00c2N V\u00c0 H\u1eacU QU\u1ea2 C\u1ee6A NGO\u1ea0I T\u00ccNH!<\/strong>
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\u201cKh\u00f4ng ! Kh\u00f4ng !
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau em n\u1eefa
Kh\u00f4ng ! Kh\u00f4ng !
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau em n\u1eefa
Kh\u00f4ng ! Kh\u00f4ng !
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau em n\u1eefa em \u01a1i.\u201d<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u anh ch\u1ecb em th\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh, ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch ng\u00e2m nga b\u00e0i h\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ca tr\u00ean c\u1ee7a ph\u1ea7n m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e0i h\u00e1t \u201cKh\u00f4ng 1\u201d c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n \u00c1nh 9. L\u00fd do m\u00e0 anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau em n\u1eefa ho\u1eb7c em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau anh n\u1eefa th\u00ec c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 t\u00f9y v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng theo nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c l\u00fd do th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra chung quanh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. <\/mark><\/strong>Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe h\u1ecd than th\u1edf: \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau nhau n\u1eefa<\/strong>.\u201d \u201cGi\u1eefa ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung.<\/strong>\u201d \u201c\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/strong>.\u201d Ho\u1eb7c: \u201cTr\u00e1i tim t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft!<\/strong>\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i con tim \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eaft l\u1ecbm th\u00ec sao t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung? L\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a?<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1?<\/strong>\u201d \u00dd ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1 trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, l\u00e0m hao m\u00f2n ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 sau n\u00e0y, g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho con c\u00e1i, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, hoang t\u01b0\u1edfng, b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng h\u1eadu ch\u1ea5n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng <\/mark><\/strong>(post-traumatic stress disorder – PTSD). C\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 39 \u0111\u1ebfn 52% tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1edf m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh?<\/strong> D\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 10 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u, trong \u0111\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n. Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y chi\u1ebfm 20-40% c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh.
2. Thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng.
3. Kh\u1eafc kh\u1ea9u.
4. M\u1eadp ph\u00ec.
5. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.
6. Thi\u1ebfu th\u00e2n m\u1eadt.
7. Thi\u1ebfu b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng.
8. K\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng.
9. B\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0
10. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u sinh l\u00fd. [2]<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Khi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 do m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai l\u00fd do. N\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n, t\u00edch l\u0169y l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y, l\u00e2u th\u00e1ng, l\u00e2u n\u0103m nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, v\u00e0 sau c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u201csay n\u1eafng\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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    Say n\u1eafng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u chu k\u1ef3 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Tr\u00ean \u00be t\u1ee9c 77% tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh cho th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00e1t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00fac n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t, \u0111\u00e1ng khinh, \u0111\u00e1ng coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea5t t\u00e0i, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1ed1t m\u1ea5y \u0111i n\u1eefa c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 khoe v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111ang g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1 trong v\u0169ng b\u00f9n, trong chi\u1ebfc ao t\u00f9 m\u00e0 nay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eaby v\u00f9ng gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng bao la trong m\u00e1t.\u201d Ch\u00ednh trong l\u00fac \u0111ang b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201cTim t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, con c\u00e1 kia sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian v\u1eaby v\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y thu m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1i \u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea3o ri\u00eang t\u01b0, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00f4m theo c\u00e1i b\u1ee5ng b\u1ea7u. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00ec nhu c\u1ea7u sinh l\u00fd? C\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 1\/3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi 32% tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn sinh l\u00fd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/strong>. T\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201c\u0103n ch\u01a1i ngon h\u01a1n \u0103n th\u1eadt\u201d \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 l\u00fan s\u00e2u v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng sai tr\u00e1i. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed c\u1ee7a l\u1ea1 \u201cch\u00e1n c\u01a1m th\u00e8m ph\u1edf\u201d, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Nam gi\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eef gi\u1edbi trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 thu h\u00fat<\/strong>. (Selterman et al., 2019) [3]<\/p>\n\n\n

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    Khi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi ly d\u1ecb, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nhau v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i nam, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i.<\/mark><\/strong> L\u00fd do che \u0111\u1eady th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0: \u201cM\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng trai g\u00e1i n\u1eefa<\/strong>.\u201d \u201cM\u1ec7t m\u00e3 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i<\/strong>.\u201d Ho\u1eb7c: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4 khan, l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng<\/strong>.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    N\u1ebfu trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0 li\u00ean k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4 khan, l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n th\u00ec m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u1ea5y, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u1ea5y qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. <\/strong>Nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u1ee5y bi\u1ec7n nh\u1eb1m che d\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u1ea5y l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u0111ang n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng v\u00e0 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh: ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh trong t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u00edt ai bi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng khi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/mark><\/strong> C\u0103n b\u1ea3n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ham c\u1ee7a l\u1ea1, ham vui, mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chinh ph\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00e1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u1edf nh\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng khi x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i<\/mark><\/strong>; \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 mang thai ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 con v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft l\u00e0 do nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u00f4i th\u00fac t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u0169 phu, ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c khi \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 con trong th\u1eddi gian ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c quay v\u1ec1 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn <\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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    D<\/mark>\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111i n\u1eefa, khi n\u00f3i c\u00e2u: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau anh\/em n\u1eefa\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cTim t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft\u201d trong th\u1eddi gian ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ng\u1ee5y bi\u1ec7n mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa. Tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u201cch\u1ebft\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i \u201cs\u1ed1ng\u201d r\u1ea5t m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1eadp nh\u1eefng nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp cu\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1n, m\u1ed7i khi g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. <\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Do \u0111\u00f3, trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh \u00edt ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con tim, h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ea7u k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho tr\u00e1i tim t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9t qu\u1ef5, v\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb v\u1ee5t t\u1eaft!<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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