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Trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau l\u00ean: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEm c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u00f3i l\u00e0 th\u00edch c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111i l\u00e0m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0n h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi em m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec h\u1ebft, v\u00e0 em l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau c\u00f9ng bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1ebfu em h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao anh kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0n v\u1edbi em, th\u00ec anh ta b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m nghe ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u00fang hay sai. V\u1eady em ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a em?\u201d<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ra sao v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e3i v\u00e3, hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng nhau l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra. C\u00e3i v\u00e3, hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung, \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n. T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, \u0103n \u00fd gi\u1eefa hai c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 nam n\u1eef, gi\u1eefa hai t\u00e2m t\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau. <\/strong>Trong l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec1 h\u1ee9a \u201cy\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhau cho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e3n \u0111\u1eddi\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 hai y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 qua vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i, chia s\u1ebb, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho s\u1ef1 th\u0103ng hoa v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3. Vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. Trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0n h\u1ecfi nhau, chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng g\u00f3p \u00fd cho nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7. V\u1eady tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00eau l\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh,\u201d l\u1ea1i \u201cb\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m nghe ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u00fang hay sai\u201d m\u1ed7i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 n\u00eau l\u00ean nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NGUY\u00caN NH\u00c2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

1-C\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u00fat gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng. <\/strong>Anh ta s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd mang ti\u1ebfng m\u00ecnh d\u1ed1t, m\u00ecnh k\u00e9m, ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft h\u01a1n v\u1ee3! Do t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 \u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, anh coi m\u1eb7t m\u0169i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 v\u00ec v\u1eady tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 m\u1ecdi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-T\u00ednh ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u1ecf m\u1ecdn c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00ec ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1edbn lao r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng? <\/strong>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec n\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3-B\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng trong l\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e0n v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u1ee9 b\u00e0n r\u00f9n, b\u00e0n ra, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n, ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ed3ng theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, thi\u1ebfu th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n g\u00e2y th\u00eam phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00d3P \u00dd:<\/h4>\n\n\n
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S\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c mang ti\u1ebfng thua k\u00e9m v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. T\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 ty ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 t\u00f4n n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c chia r\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. \u201cHai c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u.\u201d Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0n h\u1ecfi, chia s\u1ebb l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m. Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e3nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra t\u00e2m l\u00fd mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n. V\u00ec ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u1ed3ng n\u00ean m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n l\u1edbn nh\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft, mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh. Do s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 c\u00e3i v\u00e3, tranh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf m\u1ecdn v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 sau c\u00f9ng trong nh\u1eefng tranh ch\u1ea5p, b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung. Thay v\u00ec l\u1eafng nghe, g\u00f3p \u00fd l\u1ea1i la l\u00e0ng la x\u00f3m, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng lung tung g\u00e2y m\u1ea5t h\u00f2a kh\u00ed.<\/strong> \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do: \u201cNh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady con h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao anh kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0n v\u1edbi em, th\u00ec anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m nghe con ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u00fang hay sai.\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed7i khi m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0n, mu\u1ed1n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i \u201cn\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn l\u00ean, b\u1ecf \u0111i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u00fang sai?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u201cN\u00f3i ng\u1ecdt n\u00f3 l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o x\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d, v\u00e0 \u201cL\u1eddi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n mua, l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i cho v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng nhau.\u201d Kinh nghi\u1ec7m cha \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y. Kh\u00f4ng l\u1ebd g\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 n\u00f3i n\u0103ng t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi, l\u1ef1a l\u00fac, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn b\u1ecf \u0111i?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: Bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, g\u00f3p \u00fd v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c; nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. \u201cSau l\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb\u201d. C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u201cr\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n qu\u00ed, s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca dao Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cThu\u1eadn v\u1ee3 thu\u1eadn ch\u1ed3ng t\u00e1t Bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n\u201d. Bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u00f4ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc ta m\u00e0 b\u1ecdn Trung C\u1ed9ng \u0111ang tranh d\u00e0nh, x\u00e2m l\u1ea5n. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng thay v\u00ec tranh c\u00e3i, b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng thu\u1eadn th\u1ea3o, r\u1ee7 nhau quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m t\u00e1t s\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecdn ch\u00fang kh\u1ecfi mang t\u00e0u, thuy\u1ec1n sang chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i d\u00e2n ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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