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K\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ly d\u1ecb, ly d\u1ecb r\u1ed3i k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ly d\u1ecb k\u1ebft h\u00f4n r\u1ed3i ly d\u1ecb\u2026 c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh xu th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta. Ng\u00e0y nay h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh \u00e1i. Hay \u1edf, d\u1edf \u0111i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111ang d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tan bi\u1ebfn, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ed0 LI\u1ec6U TH\u1ed0NG K\u00ca V\u1ec0 LY D\u1eca C\u1ee6A N\u0102M 2024\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ly d\u1ecb hi\u1ec7n nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eddi s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa. Th\u1ef1c ra, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t xu th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n nay. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u1ec5 l\u00e2y lan nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1eefa v\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eefa th\u00ec t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m v\u00e0 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ef1a theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u1ee7a n\u0103m 2022, trung b\u00ecnh 1,6 tr\u00ean 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb. Nh\u01b0ng theo kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean 56 qu\u1ed1c gia, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 1,8 tr\u00ean 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Trong khi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 35 tu\u1ed5i ly d\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n nay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean 50 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb 55-64 l\u1ea1i \u0111ang l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. [1]  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2015, c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebft h\u00f4n: 5,7<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ly di: 0,4<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7: 7,02%<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ean l\u01b0u \u00fd, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea n\u0103m 2015. T\u00ednh t\u1eeb n\u0103m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nay ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam.[2] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00c1I NH\u00ccN T\u1ed4NG QU\u00c1T V\u1ec0 H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n nay ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea5p ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng v\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00e1nh Kinh cho bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u00e0i t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef.\u201d(Gen 1:27) K\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t giao \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: \u201cV\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam s\u1ebd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t.\u201d (Gen 2:24)\u00a0<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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T\u1eeb kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p mang gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n, duy nh\u1ea5t.<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y nay \u0111ang t\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u1edbi nhau ho\u1eb7c hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef v\u1edbi nhau g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh. Ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed cho bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 cho vi\u1ec7c ly d\u1ecb sau n\u00e0y. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

GI\u00c1 TR\u1eca C\u1ee6A H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n theo \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ni\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i sau n\u00e0y.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i:<\/em> <\/strong>\u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\u201d (Gen 2:18) Kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. Theo quan ni\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o.\u201d (Thomas Merton) Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ki\u1ebfn, lo\u00e0i m\u1ed1i, lo\u00e0i ong\u2026 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e0n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt v\u00e0 th\u00fa r\u1eebng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb l\u00fac sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 mang s\u1eb5n trong m\u00ecnh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u00ednh.<\/strong> \u0110\u1eb7c t\u00ednh n\u00e0y ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t, n\u1ea3y n\u1edf ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac m\u1edbi sinh qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng v\u00e0 bao b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. T\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng chung huy\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a:<\/strong><\/em> V\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i. V\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 qua c\u01a1m \u0103n, \u00e1o m\u1eb7c, nh\u1eefng t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7, phong t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a v\u00f9ng mi\u1ec1n, c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. B\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n, duy tr\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n v\u0103n h\u00f3a. Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y n\u1eb1m s\u1eb5n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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-Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c:<\/em> Chung th\u1ee7y, m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3, m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng. Hy sinh cho nhau. <\/strong>C\u00f9ng nhau sinh s\u1ea3n, nu\u00f4i d\u1eady v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u0103n b\u1ea3n ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1ecfng l\u1ebbo. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o nh\u01b0 C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o, Tin L\u00e0nh, Ph\u1eadt Gi\u00e1o, Kh\u1ed5ng Gi\u00e1o, c\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1 cao nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef0 C\u1ea6N THI\u1ebeT C\u1ee6A H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi t\u1eeb Th\u00e1nh Kinh: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\u201d (Gen 2:18)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-B\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng:<\/strong><\/em> H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cho ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00fa vui x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt, b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u01a1n tr\u1edbn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. M\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i trao ban, l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i chia s\u1ebb. \u201cH\u00e3y sinh s\u1ea3n cho nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t.\u201d (Gen 1:28) \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh m\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Adam-Eva khi t\u00e1c th\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac chung:<\/em> H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. Trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fac ph\u00fac. Hoa qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00e0nh cho nhau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/mark><\/strong> H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 vinh d\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, l\u00e0m anh, ch\u1ecb, em\u2026l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ri\u00eang v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi:<\/strong> \u201cS\u1ef1 g\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n ly.\u201d (Mt 19:6; Mk 10:9) H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ed1ng chung, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/strong> \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n ly\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1eddi h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc: \u201cKhi kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac y\u1ebfu \u0111au, khi th\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac gian nan\u2026 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhau su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o.<\/mark><\/strong> V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u1ebfu nh\u00ecn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t si\u00eau xa l\u1ed9, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t xa l\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e3 r\u1ebd, v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng. S\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG CHU\u1ea8N B\u1eca C\u1ea6N THI\u1ebeT<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc danh ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc v\u1ecb, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p n\u00e0o cho ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 l\u01a1 l\u00e0 v\u00ec quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi con, ch\u00e1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

a-T\u00e2m linh:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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V\u1ec1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m linh.<\/strong> T\u00e2m linh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kim ch\u1ec9 nam cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Do \u0111\u00f3, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i cho nhau bi\u1ebft quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh, v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sau n\u00e0y.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o ai n\u1ea5y gi\u1eef, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a anh. Ch\u00ednh quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i b\u00ean b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c xung kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 chu to\u00e0n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t, b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

b-Kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng \u0103n, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/strong> Th\u1eddi nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3: \u201cHai tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00fap l\u1ec1u l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u01a1i \u0103n, ch\u1ed1n \u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 nhi\u1ec1u khi s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/strong> Do \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. Ai l\u00e0m, ai ti\u00eau, ai gi\u1eef ti\u1ec1n, ai ph\u1ea3i lo t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho vi\u1ec7c chi ti\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebd h\u1edf khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i lo l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i v\u1ea1, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c, trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

c-Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n y\u00eau nhau, c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n trong th\u1eddi gian quen bi\u1ebft th\u00ec m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Anh lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng em, v\u00e0 em lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh, anh n\u00f3i em nghe ho\u1eb7c em n\u00f3i anh nghe. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh sau n\u00e0y.<\/strong> \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 quan ni\u1ec7m: \u201cG\u00e1i tham t\u00e0i, trai tham s\u1eafc\u201d \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Do \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh b\u1ed9c tr\u1ef1c, \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o, t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f2n n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n cho th\u1ea5y khi y\u00eau nhau v\u00e0 sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3. Th\u1eddi gian hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m. <\/strong>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, tranh c\u00e3i, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

d-R\u00e0o c\u1ea3n v\u0103n h\u00f3a & x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc v\u1ecb cao so v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00e1i n\u00e0o s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta chu to\u00e0n t\u1ed1t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3?<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. <\/strong>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p cao, chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu thua nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn nghe n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m sai v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb1m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n cho c\u01a1n kh\u00e1t y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. Th\u1eadt ra tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng h\u01a1n tu\u1ed5i v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 h\u01a1n tu\u1ed5i ch\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/strong> H\u00e3y b\u1ecf ngo\u00e0i tai nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ecb ngh\u1ecb, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, sinh l\u00fd. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y theo th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng, th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 cho vi\u1ec7c chu to\u00e0n vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u1ee3.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i. M\u1ea5y con, con trai, con g\u00e1i? Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ng\u00e0y nay v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m: \u201cTr\u1ecdng nam, khinh n\u1eef\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cSinh con \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. V\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n n\u00e0y nghe qua nh\u01b0 hoang \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i v\u0103n minh, khoa h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u00ec con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Sau c\u00f9ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu.<\/strong> Ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfu? Hi\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eebng g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu. S\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh b\u00ean nhau kh\u00f4ng? L\u00e0m sao dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 ch\u1eef t\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u1ea5y nhau.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN K\u1ebeT H\u00d4N<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u0110\u1eb9p x\u1ea5u t\u00f9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.\u201d \u00a0
\u201cY\u00eau nhau kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, gi\u1ea7u ngh\u00e8o.\u201d
\u201cHai tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0ng trong t\u00fap l\u1ec1u l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng.\u201d
\u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft em l\u00e0 ai\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong th\u1eddi gian h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p v\u1edbi ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, anh, ch\u1ecb, em v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n s\u1ebd \u201cv\u00f4 \u00edch\u201d, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, ho\u1eb7c \u201cl\u00e0m cho b\u00f5 t\u1ee9c\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u01a1, nh\u1eefng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n, chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng, ve v\u00e3n l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ecb thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 qua con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ch\u1ee7 quan v\u00ec gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch quan:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng: [3]<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m, th\u1edd \u01a1, thi\u1ebfu ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1m g\u1ea5u \u00e1o m\u1eb9.<\/strong> S\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/strong> Kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1ea1n.<\/strong> Ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u1ebb quy\u1ebfn r\u0169, v\u00e0 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, van n\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

*\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd y\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u00eau b\u00e0i quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u0103ng hoa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh kh\u00f3 ch\u1eeba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m v\u1ee3: [4]<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

1-Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng:<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cTrong nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai con g\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-C\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd:<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, mu\u1ed1n theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh.
*Thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3-Ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng:<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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*Ghen l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 h\u00e0m \u00fd chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t.
*Nh\u01b0ng ghen b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4-Ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch:<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3i h\u00e0nh, n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5-T\u1ef1 ty:<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n so s\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.
*Lu\u00f4n m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6-Thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

*L\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, l\u00fac th\u1ebf kh\u00e1c, s\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a theo \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.
*N\u00f3i n\u0103ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng.
*N\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y v\u00e0 b\u1ed9c tr\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7-Th\u00edch l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c:<\/em> Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 ki\u1ebfn.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

*N\u00fap b\u00f3ng m\u1eb9.\u00a0
*S\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8-\u0110\u00f9a gi\u1ee1n v\u1edbi con tim:<\/em> T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

KH\u00d4NG C\u00d3 NG\u01af\u1edcI \u0110\u00c0N \u00d4NG HO\u00c0N TO\u00c0N.
KH\u00d4NG C\u00d3 NG\u01af\u1edcI \u0110\u00c0N B\u00c0 TUY\u1ec6T V\u1edcI.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cH\u00e3y c\u1ee9 l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 \u0111i.<\/em>
N\u1ebfu may m\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/em>
N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia.\u201d<\/em>
Socrates<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. https:\/\/www.advokatsmart.no\/news\/global-divorce-statistics<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/List_of_countries_by_divorce_rate<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u201cNH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN L\u1ea4Y L\u00c0M CH\u1ed2NG.\u201d Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u201cNH\u1eeeNG PH\u1ee4 N\u1eee KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN L\u1ea4Y L\u00c0M V\u1ee2.\u201d Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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