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Nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i xin vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y: ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f9y theo m\u1ed7i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, t\u00f9y theo m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1, t\u00f9y theo t\u1eebng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed, m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ed5ng, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m, h\u01b0u tr\u00ed ho\u1eb7c th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb tr\u00ed, nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t, hai, c\u00f3 khi ba cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c, h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m, ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o l\u00e0m trong m\u1ed9t h\u00e3ng x\u01b0\u1edfng, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty, m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp \u0111o\u00e0n, m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mong \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p t\u00e0i, s\u1ee9c, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ai d\u1ea1i g\u00ec b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c sau khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o l\u00e0m r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i l\u01a1 l\u00e0, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u00ea b\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb sa th\u1ea3i.  <\/p>\n\n\n

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Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1, m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 m\u1edbi tho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ea7u ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ecf b\u00ea, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi n\u00f3: \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m v\u1ee3.<\/strong> C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, sai s\u00f3t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n k\u1ef9 \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean. Ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sau khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn, \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean m\u1edbi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 xin ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb sa th\u1ea3i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mau ch\u00f3ng, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t \u00e1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cho m\u00ea m\u1ea9n, m\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u00fd tr\u00ed. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ly d\u1ecb, ly d\u1ecb r\u1ed3i k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ly d\u1ecb k\u1ebft h\u00f4n r\u1ed3i ly d\u1ecb\u2026 c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh xu th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u00f4m nay. <\/strong>H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u00e1i t\u00ecnh. Quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tan bi\u1ebfn, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ed0NG K\u00ca LY D\u1eca C\u1ee6A N\u0102M 2024\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ly d\u1ecb hi\u1ec7n nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, hay \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, ly d\u1ecb hi\u1ec7n nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh d\u1ec5 l\u00e2y lan c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ef1a theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u1ee7a n\u0103m 2022, trung b\u00ecnh 1,6 tr\u00ean 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb. Nh\u01b0ng theo kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean 56 qu\u1ed1c gia, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 1,8 tr\u00ean 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong khi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 35 tu\u1ed5i ly d\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n nay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean 50 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb 55-64 l\u1ea1i \u0111ang l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. [1] <\/p>\n\n\n

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C\u0169ng theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2015, c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean 1.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebft h\u00f4n: 5,7<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ly di: 0,4<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7: 7,02%<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ean l\u01b0u \u00fd, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea n\u0103m 2015. T\u00ednh t\u1eeb n\u0103m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nay ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ly d\u1ecb t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam.[2] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00c1I NH\u00ccN C\u1ee6A TH\u1ebe H\u1ec6 TR\u1eba<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n nay ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea5p ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng v\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t thu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 ng\u00e0n n\u0103m th\u1ee9 ba v\u00e0 Gen Z, ng\u1ea1i k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ch\u1eadm k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00ec nh\u1eefng s\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a kinh t\u1ebf, mu\u1ed1n n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, v\u00e0 th\u00edch chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea ly d\u1ecb, th\u00edch n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u00e0m cho gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n tu\u00e2n theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng chung trai g\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n theo nh\u1eefng tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng \u00e1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y nay \u0111ang t\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u1edbi nhau ho\u1eb7c hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef v\u1edbi nhau g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p trai g\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed.      <\/p>\n\n\n

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Sau c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p mang gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n, duy nh\u1ea5t. Ri\u00eang v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi: \u201cS\u1ef1 g\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n ly.\u201d (Mt 19:6; Mk 10:9) \u00a0<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n c\u00f2n mang tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng. X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac chung. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00e0nh cho nhau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 vinh d\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, l\u00e0m anh, ch\u1ecb, em\u2026l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a tr\u01b0\u1edbc quan t\u00f2a, trong th\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau \u201cKhi kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac y\u1ebfu \u0111au, khi th\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac gian nan\u2026 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhau su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi\u201d ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 theo nghi th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG CHU\u1ea8N B\u1eca C\u1ea6N THI\u1ebeT<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc danh ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc v\u1ecb, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai; nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p n\u00e0o cho ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u00edt ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 l\u01a1 l\u00e0 v\u00ec quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi con, ch\u00e1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

a-T\u00e2m linh:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00e2m linh, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng. T\u00e2m linh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kim ch\u1ec9 nam cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/mark><\/strong> Do \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh, v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n

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H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o ai n\u1ea5y gi\u1eef, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a anh. Quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i b\u00ean b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c xung kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 chu to\u00e0n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t, b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

b-Kinh t\u1ebf:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, an to\u00e0n, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u00a0m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng \u0103n, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m.<\/strong> Trong th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u201cHai tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0ng b\u00ean t\u00fap l\u1ec1u l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng, gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh d\u1ed1i g\u1ea1t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 cho nhau, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. Ai l\u00e0m, ai gi\u1eef ti\u1ec1n, ai ph\u1ea3i lo t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho vi\u1ec7c chi ti\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebd h\u1edf khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i lo l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i v\u1ea1, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0103n kh\u00f4ng, ng\u1ed3i r\u1ed3i. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau l\u00ean trong c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i sau n\u00e0y li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

c-T\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1eddi gian y\u00eau nhau, quen nhau v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, sinh l\u00fd \u00edt khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 hai quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng v\u1ec1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh sau n\u00e0y<\/strong>. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 quan ni\u1ec7m: \u201cG\u00e1i tham t\u00e0i, trai tham s\u1eafc\u201d \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nhau nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh b\u1ed9c tr\u1ef1c, \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o, t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau? C\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m hy v\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i?<\/p>\n\n\n

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M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n sau n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n hay kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u sinh l\u00fd. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y tuy r\u1ea5t t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 20% t\u1edbi 50% nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f2n n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. Khi y\u00eau nhau v\u00e0 sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, tranh c\u00e3i, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

d-V\u0103n h\u00f3a & x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc v\u1ecb cao so v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00e1i n\u00e0o s\u1ebd gi\u00fap chu to\u00e0n t\u1ed1t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3?<\/strong> Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p cao, chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu thua nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra trong th\u1eddi gian h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Khi y\u00eau nhau th\u00ec \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb1m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n cho c\u01a1n kh\u00e1t y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi.<\/strong> Th\u1eadt ra tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y theo th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng, th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 cho vi\u1ec7c chu to\u00e0n vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u1ee3.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sinh m\u1ea5y con, con trai, con g\u00e1i? \u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a quan ni\u1ec7m: \u201cTr\u1ecdng nam, khinh n\u1eef\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cSinh con \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d m\u1edbi nghe qua nh\u01b0 hoang \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i v\u0103n minh, khoa h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i: \u201cCon h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9, ch\u00e1u h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i b\u00e0\u201d.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau c\u00f9ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu. B\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfu? Hi\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu. S\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o c\u00f3 tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? L\u00e0m sao dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 ch\u1eef t\u00ecnh? L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 hai b\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh? Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN K\u1ebeT H\u00d4N<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u0110\u1eb9p x\u1ea5u t\u00f9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.\u201d\u00a0
\u201cY\u00eau nhau kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, gi\u1ea7u ngh\u00e8o.\u201d
\u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft em l\u00e0 ai\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1eddi gian h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn ta b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p v\u1edbi ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, anh, ch\u1ecb, em v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n quen l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u201cv\u00f4 \u00edch\u201d, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, ho\u1eb7c \u201cl\u00e0m cho b\u00f5 t\u1ee9c\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u01a1. Nh\u1eefng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n, chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng, ve v\u00e3n l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ecb thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 qua con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Sau \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ch\u1ee7 quan v\u00ec gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch quan d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng: <\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, con trai b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean trao th\u00e2n g\u1eedi ph\u1eadn:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m, th\u1edd \u01a1, v\u00f4 t\u00e2m, v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m.
2. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1c nh\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u00a0
3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u1ebb quy\u1ebfn r\u0169, v\u00e0 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.
4. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ee5c k\u1ebf mong t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, van n\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd y\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u00eau b\u00e0i quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n

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-Thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1m g\u1ea5u \u00e1o m\u1eb9.
2. S\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.
3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.
2. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u0103ng hoa, c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat.
3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh kh\u00f3 ch\u1eeba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m v\u1ee3: <\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng x\u00e2y nh\u00e0.
\u0110\u00e0n b\u00e0 x\u00e2y t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nam gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef sau. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m v\u1ee3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-Gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-C\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p.
-Thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

* Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cTrong nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai con g\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-Thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-N\u00f3i n\u0103ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng.
-N\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y v\u00e0 b\u1ed9c tr\u1ef1c.
-Ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch, n\u00f3i h\u00e0nh, n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-C\u1edd b\u1ea1c, r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, nghi\u1ec7n h\u00fat v\u00e0 l\u1eb3ng l\u01a1.
-Ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1 thai v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n sinh con.
-\u0110\u00f9a gi\u1ee1n v\u1edbi con tim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.Thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

a-M\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ty:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-N\u00fap b\u00f3ng m\u1eb9.
-S\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha.\u00a0
-Thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n so s\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.
-Ghen t\u1ef5:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Ghen l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 h\u00e0m \u00fd chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t. Nh\u01b0ng ghen b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

b-Thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7:
-Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 ki\u1ebfn.\u00a0
-Lu\u00f4n m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u00a0
-L\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, l\u00fac th\u1ebf kh\u00e1c, s\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a theo \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110\u01af\u1ee2C V\u00c0 M\u1ea4T KHI L\u1ef0A CH\u1eccN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 12 b\u1ebfn n\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong nh\u1edd, \u0111\u1ee5c ch\u1ecbu; th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng con trai \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, theo tri\u1ebft gia Hy L\u1ea1p:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cH\u00e3y c\u1ee9 l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 \u0111i.<\/em>
N\u1ebfu may m\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/em>
N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia.\u201d<\/em>
Socrates<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecdn b\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 cao, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t l\u00fd tr\u00ed. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1ea5u tr\u0129, \u0111am m\u00ea d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc: \u201cH\u00e3y l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u00ecnh\u201d. V\u00ec:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.
C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

_________<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. https:\/\/www.advokatsmart.no\/news\/global-divorce-statistics<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/List_of_countries_by_divorce_rate<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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