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Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i ngoan ngo\u00e3n, v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, v\u00e0 thu\u1eadn h\u00f2a v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u1ea5y, ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0y c\u00f4ng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i s\u1eeda sai. \u201cNh\u00e2n chi s\u01a1, t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n thi\u1ec7n\u201d. Tuy con ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra ai c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7m non \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2y tr\u00e1i t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00e2m ch\u1ed3i, n\u1ea9y l\u1ed9c v\u00e0 sinh hoa k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, c\u1eaft t\u1ec9a ra sao t\u00f9y v\u00e0o tay ngh\u1ec1, l\u00f2ng y\u00eau ngh\u1ec1, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn.<\/strong> Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111\u00f3.<\/mark><\/strong> V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y. N\u00f3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhau, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n m\u00e0 theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00f4i khi cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, v\u00e0 tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi nhau v\u00ec b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i.<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec trong khi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cCon h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9, ch\u00e1u h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i b\u00e0.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

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T\u1ea1i sao con h\u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u00e1u h\u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i b\u00e0? Trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 Vi\u1ec7t Nam, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. \u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng x\u00e2y nh\u00e0, \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 x\u00e2y t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m.\u201d Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m nu\u00f4i, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd chung l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng tr\u00ean t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eadm n\u00e9t h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha.<\/strong> H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i th\u00ec s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i, thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f2n chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u01b0 con h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng con g\u00e1i g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi cha m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. T\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 bao b\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7. Trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. Do t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u01b0\u1eddng cung c\u1ea5p vai tr\u00f2 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh ch\u00ednh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda d\u1ea1y mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, ho\u1eb7c nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9.<\/strong> Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00f2n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa con trai hay con g\u00e1i. Tr\u1ebb con th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9. Ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1c nhau, ho\u1eb7c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i, chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c nhau trong c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi nhau t\u1ef1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng. T\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1ea5y ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh, gi\u1eefa \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n, ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng. Do \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u1ee3p l\u00fd trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n: \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-Chung m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i.<\/mark><\/strong> Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nhau, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang t\u01b0. C\u00e3i nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Khi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e3i v\u00e3, tranh lu\u1eadn nhau v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, con c\u00e1i t\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y ai th\u1eafng s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1eafng hay thua, con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd xem ai s\u1ebd y\u00eau chi\u1ec1u ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tu\u00e2n theo lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a ra. N\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb con r\u1ea5t b\u00e9n nh\u1eady tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng ch\u00fang.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng n\u00ean bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng s\u1eeda d\u1eady v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c v\u00e2ng gi\u1eef lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7, l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ph\u1ea3n lo\u1ea1n, ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i ch\u1eebng v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n. C\u00e1c em s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn trong nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng, sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn c\u00e1c em s\u1ebd v\u00e2ng nghe.<\/strong> Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu cha ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 s\u1ee3 con bu\u1ed3n, con kh\u00f3c, con l\u00e0m lo\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i nh\u1eb9 l\u00f2ng l\u00e0m ng\u01a1 th\u00ec con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tu\u00e2n theo lu\u1eadt \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng kh\u00e1c trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u00f9 ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, d\u00f9 ai thua th\u00ec gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha n\u1eb7ng b\u1eb1ng n\u0103m l\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 con n\u00e0y hay con kh\u00e1c, con trai hay con g\u00e1i.<\/strong> T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng theo c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u, cha th\u00edch con trai, m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng con g\u00e1i, ho\u1eb7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c con. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng theo t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, t\u00f9y ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 t\u00f9y m\u1ed7i con.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u00e2m t\u00ednh, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3nh: \u201cY\u00eau con n\u1ecd, gh\u00e9t con kia\u201d.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3-T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00ec con.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec9nh \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00ec n\u00ean t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung, c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho con ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh.<\/mark><\/strong> V\u00ec con c\u00e1i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec c\u00e1i t\u00f4i, v\u00ec m\u1eb7t m\u0169i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1eeda sai nh\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cThu\u1eadn v\u1ee3 thu\u1eadn ch\u1ed3ng t\u00e1t bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n\u201d. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang trong m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng khi l\u00e0m \u0103n, kinh doanh, bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c khi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1 t\u00ednh. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc chung, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn trong lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4-Cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9.<\/h4>\n\n\n
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S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1eady d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 cha l\u1eabn m\u1eb9.<\/mark><\/strong> C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n trong Th\u00e1nh Kinh l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi khi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Th\u00e1nh Kinh k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i khi c\u00e1c nghi l\u1ec5 t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ec1n Th\u1edd Gi\u00earusalem k\u1ebft th\u00fac, tr\u1ebb Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u00fd \u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ec1n Th\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. Sau ba ng\u00e0y khi g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con, tuy hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 Ng\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u: \u201cN\u00e0y con, sao con \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Cha con v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 lo l\u1eafng t\u00ecm con.\u201d (Luca 2:48)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Khi con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nhau.\u00a0<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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