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H\u00f4m r\u1ed3i trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam n\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1ee3 ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 v\u1eady? B\u1ed9 ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 g\u00ec b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef sao?\u201d<\/strong> C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a anh h\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0i h\u00f4m b\u00e0 x\u00e3 t\u00f4i cho xem m\u1ed9t clip trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u01a1n kh\u00e1t d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1 v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh sau khi n\u00e0ng m\u1edbi sinh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t clip n\u1eefa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 moi trong t\u00fai m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng, v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m b\u1ecf \u0111i. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0o cho xem nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y xong, b\u00e0 c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u00e0n t\u1ec7, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i g\u00ec? T\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 hy v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p cho ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i, cho v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i, v\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 can thi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI \u0110\u00c0N \u00d4NG B\u1ea0O H\u00c0NH<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft \u201cNh\u1eefng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kh\u00f4ng N\u00ean L\u1ea5y L\u00e0m Ch\u1ed3ng\u201d, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00ednh v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y 9 th\u00e1ng 9 n\u0103m 2024, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau l\u00ean 6 lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u1ebf c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u00e1u b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i hay vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n t\u1ecf ra n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn, t\u1eeb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn quan tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 do thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 ch\u1ebf, thi\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n l\u00e3nh m\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e3i v\u00e3, r\u1ed3i \u201cth\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1eb3ng ch\u00e2n, h\u1ea1 c\u1eb3ng tay\u201d v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 con. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tay h\u1ecd, r\u1ea5t \u00edt hy v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ee5 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft bi th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng mang t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y<\/mark><\/strong>.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecb em ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n: \u201cN\u1ebfu trong th\u1eddi gian t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n may m\u1eafn nh\u1eadn ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng, ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1, v\u0103ng t\u1ee5c, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, v\u00e0 t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c \u201ct\u1eb7ng\u201d b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1t tai. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u00e3y: \u201cB\u1ecf c\u1ee7a ch\u1ea1y l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d.  \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eb9 d\u1ea1 m\u00e0 thi\u1ec7t v\u00e0o th\u00e2n.\u201d [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea0O H\u00c0NH GIA \u0110\u00ccNH L\u00c0 G\u00cc?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec? N\u00f3i n\u00f4m na l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1nh con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o, thi\u1ebfu v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00e0nh cho nhau, ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/mark><\/strong> Ri\u00eang trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0o h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhau. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ed3m trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-\u0110\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp th\u1ec3 l\u00fd.
-C\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.
-N\u00f3i n\u0103ng, ch\u1eedi b\u1edbi v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m.
-Kh\u1ee7ng b\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ed0NG K\u00ca B\u1ea0O H\u00c0NH<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e3i v\u00e3, \u1ea9u \u0111\u1ea3 v\u00e0 g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch cho nhau, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngh\u00e8o, th\u1ea5t h\u1ecdc, ho\u1eb7c trong c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc thi\u1ebfu m\u1edf mang. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o, trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u00e0i ch\u00e1nh, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, s\u1eafc t\u1ed9c v\u00e0 qu\u1ed1c gia n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh chung c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1 trong 7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, v\u00e0 1 trong 25 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch do ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu g\u00e2y ra. Bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, \u0111\u1ed1t ch\u00e1y, \u0111\u00e2m ch\u00e9m ho\u1eb7c d\u00f9ng s\u00fang. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 1 trong 10 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ch\u00ednh ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh hi\u1ebfp d\u00e2m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea chung to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u1ee9 1 trong 3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o con s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1eaft li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, 90% nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u do nam gi\u1edbi g\u00e2y ra.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo H\u1ed9i Li\u00ean Hi\u1ec7p Ph\u1ee5 N\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam (Viet Nam Women\u2019s Union), ng\u00e0y 25 th\u00e1ng 11 n\u0103m 2010, T\u1ed5ng C\u1ee5c Th\u1ed1ng K\u00ea \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u qu\u1ed1c gia v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef do c\u01a1 quan n\u00e0y ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi T\u1ed5 Ch\u1ee9c Y T\u1ebf Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi, c\u01a1 quan h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a T\u00e2y Ban Nha th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 58% ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/strong> Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m 2010 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tham gia c\u1ee7a g\u1ea7n 5000 ch\u1ecb em \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 18 \u0111\u1ebfn 60.<\/p>\n\n\n

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C\u1ee9 3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c t\u1eebng c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi th\u00ec 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d4ng Nguy\u1ec5n Phong, V\u1ee5 Tr\u01b0\u1edfng V\u1ee5 Th\u1ed1ng K\u00ea X\u00e3 H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 M\u00f4i Tr\u01b0\u1eddng, T\u1ed5ng C\u1ee5c Th\u1ed1ng K\u00ea, cho bi\u1ebft: \u0111a s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong>. \u1ede m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00f9ng, c\u1ee9 10 ch\u1ecb em c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 4 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n trong ch\u00ednh ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o. Ngay c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang mang thai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 5% t\u1eebng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3: \u1ede v\u00f9ng \u0110\u00f4ng nam b\u1ed9, 42% ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef cho bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c cao nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c Kinh. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00e1c d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef M\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 8% b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eabn theo t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn, \u201cM\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u1ea5n b\u1ecb gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm nhi\u1ec1u\u201d, b\u00e0 Henrica A.F.M. Jansen, tr\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u00f3m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u qu\u1ed1c gia v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam cho bi\u1ebft. Theo b\u00e0 Jansen \u201cb\u00ean c\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi\u1ebfn cho ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201cb\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n bao dung, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ef1 \u00eam \u1ea5m cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 2 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tham gia nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u00ec c\u00f3 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng n\u00f3i cho ai bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede Vi\u1ec7t Nam, c\u1ee9 4 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec c\u00f3 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y cho bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. <\/strong>C\u1ee9 4 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 con d\u01b0\u1edbi 15 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec c\u00f3 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho bi\u1ebft con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00dd DO B\u1ea0O H\u00c0NH<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fd do d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh g\u00e2y ra, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra. N\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ea3 hai. Tuy nhi\u00ean, sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.C\u0103ng Th\u1eb3ng <\/strong>(stress):<\/em> Do s\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. S\u1ee9c \u00e9p t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n s\u1ee9c \u00e9p th\u1ec3 l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.T\u00e2m t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n <\/strong>(personal dispositions):<\/em> Do t\u00e2m l\u00fd thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.C\u00f4 l\u1eadp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/strong> (social isolation:<\/em> T\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh c\u00f4 l\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f4 l\u1eadp. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ty v\u00e0 xa tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i d\u1ec5 c\u00e1u g\u1eaft ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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4.Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c v\u0103n h\u00f3a, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh (cultural or societal norms, and situational factors)<\/strong>:<\/em> V\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m tr\u1ecdng nam khinh n\u1eef, quan ni\u1ec7m l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn phi\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh (Victims of domestic violence)<\/em>: T\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd do b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, ho\u1eb7c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

BI\u1ebeT T\u1ef0 K\u00ccM H\u00c3M CH\u00cdNH M\u00ccNH<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c nhau, s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee9c \u00e9p v\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng chi ph\u1ed1i, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 k\u00ecm h\u00e3m m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

–Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn<\/strong> (Anger management issues):<\/em> H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, \u201cT\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu?\u201d \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an? N\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y mang l\u1ea1i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–M\u00e1u ho\u1ea1n th\u01b0 <\/strong>(Jealousy):<\/em> \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng con trai c\u00f3 ghen kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ghen tu\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t \u0111oan trang v\u00e0 gi\u1eef kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng d\u1ec5 quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–T\u1ef1 ty m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/strong> (Low self-esteem):<\/em> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd mang t\u00ednh t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 ty ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i l\u00f2ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m<\/strong><\/em> (Feeling inferior):<\/em> H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201ct\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i\u201d. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n so s\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 ty m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu<\/strong> (Cultural beliefs hold that they have the right to control their partner):<\/em> Kh\u00f4ng \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i sau, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i ngang nhau. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft k\u00ecm h\u00e3m \u0111am m\u00ea ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<\/strong> (Personality disorder or psychological disorder):<\/em> \u0110\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, nghi ng\u1edd ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tranh ch\u1ea5p n\u1ebfu c\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7.<\/p>\n\n\n

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–R\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0<\/strong>i (Learned behavior from growing up in a family where domestic violence was accepted):<\/em> H\u1ecdc v\u00e0 r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 v\u00ec b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n \u0111i\u00ean, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ef1c di\u1ec7n: \u201cCh\u1ed3ng gi\u1eadn th\u00ec v\u1ee3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh. C\u01a1m s\u00f4i nh\u1ecf l\u1eeda m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p x\u1ea3y ra \u1ea9u \u0111\u1ea3, th\u00ec \u201c\u0110\u00e0o vi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ch.\u201d \u1ede l\u1ea1i tay \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5 d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y mang t\u00ednh khi\u00eau kh\u00edch, k\u00edch th\u00edch th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u1ee9 l\u1eadp \u0111i, l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ecf ra hung h\u00e3n, m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, th\u00ec c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 anh gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1n, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 anh u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea3 quan. C\u00e1ch c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0: \u201cB\u1ecf c\u1ee7a ch\u1ea1y l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\u201d Ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, danh d\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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