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Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ef9 t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh t\u1ee9, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 anh, em, \u00f4ng x\u00e3, b\u00e0 x\u00e3, ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3, nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i, anh y\u00eau, em y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d<\/strong>. Nghe \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1, m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c, nh\u01b0ng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c th\u00e2m th\u00fay v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd trong c\u00e1ch x\u01b0ng h\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam m\u1edbi c\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u00e0y. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eef \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d trong v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng Vi\u1ec7t Nam kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng x\u01b0ng h\u00f4 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mang \u0111\u1eadm t\u00ednh tri\u1ebft l\u00fd, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 h\u00f2a quy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1i ta c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. C\u00e1i t\u00f4i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Khi d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 x\u01b0ng ho\u1eb7c g\u1ecdi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ti\u1ebfng m\u00ecnh mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed9c tho\u1ea1i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n hay k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng, ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ai kh\u00e1c. T\u1ef1 trong th\u00e2m t\u00e2m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129, tr\u0103n tr\u1edf, v\u00e0 ho\u00e0i v\u1ecdng. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n

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2. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng khi d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eef m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd thay cho t\u1eeb anh, em, b\u1ea1n, \u00f4ng, b\u00e0… \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i x\u01b0ng h\u00f4 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, x\u00f3a tan kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cChi\u1ec1u h\u00f4m nay, ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb.\u201d    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. S\u1ef1 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Trong x\u01b0ng h\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, ch\u1eef m\u00ecnh lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ranh gi\u1edbi gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp gi\u1eefa hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gi\u1eefa m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00f4i, gi\u1eefa anh v\u00e0 em, gi\u1eefa \u00f4ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac c\u01a1m l\u00e0nh canh ng\u1ecdt, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u00e2u y\u1ebfm g\u1ecdi nhau \u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i\u201d, nghe \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0 t\u00ecnh t\u1ee9, tr\u00e2n qu\u00ed xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh. \u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i, h\u00f4m nay em m\u1ec7t, m\u00ecnh n\u1ea5u c\u01a1m, r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n gi\u00f9m em!\u201d Nghe kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng mi\u1ec1n Nam, th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe n\u00f3i hai ch\u1eef \u201cm\u00ecnh \u00ean.\u201d  T\u1eeb \u201c\u00ean\u201d d\u00f9ng chung v\u1edbi \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d nghe r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng: \u201cH\u00f4m nay tui \u0111i c\u00f3 m\u00ecnh \u00ean \u00e0!\u201d N\u00f3 to\u00e1t l\u00ean m\u1ed9t n\u00e9t v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a mi\u1ec1n s\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00f9 sa.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a0\u201cM\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ta tuy hai m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. Ta v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh tuy m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 hai.<\/strong>\u201d\u00a0 Hai c\u00e2u th\u01a1 ca ng\u1ee3i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m g\u1eafn b\u00f3, s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc gi\u1eefa hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 chung nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp tr\u00e1i tim, chung ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1edbn lao n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch. D\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f2a quy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t g\u1eafn b\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh d\u00e0nh cho nhau.\u00a0<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu n\u00ean d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 x\u01b0ng h\u00f4 v\u1edbi nhau!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. V\u0103n h\u00f3a Th\u00e1nh Kinh<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eef \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00e2m linh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Th\u00e1nh Kinh di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 qua c\u1ea3nh Adam n\u00f3i v\u1edbi v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 Eva: \u201cPhen n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i, th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i!\u201d<\/em> (S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf Th\u1ebf hay S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf K\u00fd 2:23). X\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ai kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ai kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea1i sao Adam l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi Eva l\u00e0 x\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nghe Th\u00e1nh Kinh k\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp trong S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf K\u00fd: \u201cNon est bonum esse hominem solum: faciamus ei adjutorium simile sibi.\u201d<\/mark><\/strong> (2:18)\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3.\u201d [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi n\u00f3.\u201d [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable partner for him.\u201d [3]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kinh Th\u00e1nh d\u00f9ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng\u201d<\/strong> (Ezer Kenegdo) \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef (Eva) \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng (Adam). C\u0169ng theo Th\u00e1nh Kinh thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i th\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m cho Adam ng\u1ee7 say, l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean Eva r\u1ed3i \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho \u00f4ng. Khi t\u1ec9nh d\u1eady, th\u1ea5y Eva, Adam \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed1t l\u00ean: \u201cPhen n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i, th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i!\u201d (S\u00e1ng th\u1ebf k\u00fd 2:23)<\/p>\n\n\n

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Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00ear\u00f4nim\u00f4 (Jerome) trong b\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch Kinh Th\u00e1nh sang ti\u1ebfng Latinh kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n Latin Vulgate \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ecbch c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cezer kenegdo<\/strong>\u201d trong s\u00e1ch S\u00e1ng th\u1ebf k\u00fd 2:18 l\u00e0 \u201cadiutorium simile sibi.\u201d \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec \u201cezer\u201d mang ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee9u ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 mang t\u00ednh c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap.<\/strong> Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, Kinh Th\u00e1nh d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cezer\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ea5ng gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ea7y quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng ho\u1eb7c \u0110\u1ea5ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 trong nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mang ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf c\u1ea5p b\u1eadc th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n. C\u0169ng theo \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y, Eva kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u h\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a Adam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn \u201ckenegdo\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng, \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. N\u00f3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, cho th\u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf v\u1ecb th\u1ebf ngang h\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng ai cao h\u01a1n hay th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n ai.<\/strong> B\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh, khi ph\u00e1n r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y khi t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00fang v\u1edbi \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh: Kh\u00f4ng \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00f4ng theo sau, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng s\u00e1nh b\u01b0\u1edbc song song.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi Adam n\u00f3i Eva \u201cx\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i, th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i\u201d v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng b\u00e0 t\u1eeb x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Do c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, c\u1ea3 hai th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 n\u00ean m\u1ed9t, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi Adam n\u00f3i Eva l\u00e0 \u201cx\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i, th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i\u201d, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn Eva l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh s\u01b0\u1eddn m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf v\u1ecb th\u1ebf cao h\u01a1n hay th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n \u00f4ng. Hai gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft, l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nhau v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, \u201cadiutorium simile sibi\u201d trong ti\u1ebfng Latin hay \u201cezer kenegdo\u201d trong ti\u1ebfng Do Th\u00e1i c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1; l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, gi\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0; v\u00e0 l\u00e0 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c v\u0103n b\u1ea3n ti\u1ebfng Latin c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eddi Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00ear\u00f4nim\u00f4 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n \u201cVetus Latina\u201d \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 \u201cadiutorium secundum ipsum\u201d (\u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u00f4ng\u201d). [4]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.Nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n
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Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 m\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chia ly, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, v\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb? V\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a sai<\/em>:<\/strong> Gi\u1eefa h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m, ng\u00e0n, tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh ta, v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ta, ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1ecbt ta. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a: \u201cTh\u00e2n g\u00e1i m\u01b0\u1eddi hai b\u1ebfn n\u01b0\u1edbc. Trong nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ee5c ch\u1ecbu.\u201d N\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn n\u1eeda ph\u1ea7n kia d\u1ef1a theo nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n nh\u01b0 danh gi\u00e1, gi\u1ea7u sang, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, s\u1ee9c thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a \u0111am m\u00ea d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho s\u1ed1 m\u1ec7nh ho\u1eb7c duy\u00ean s\u1ed1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh<\/strong><\/em>: S\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a sai th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ecf ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, t\u00e2m linh, tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. \u201cC\u1ee9 y\u00eau \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111i, h\u1ee3p th\u00ec \u1edf, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p th\u00ec b\u1ecf!\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c nguy hi\u1ec3m d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. T\u1ef1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u t\u1ed3i, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Sai m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/strong><\/em>: M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u: \u201cTa s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng.\u201d (S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf 2:18) <\/em>R\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, r\u1ea5t minh b\u1ea1ch, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. <\/strong>Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1, tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng, x\u1ee9ng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1edb, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n b\u00e1m, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i sau \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y \u0111\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch duy tr\u00ec n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng, n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ea3y ra sau v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn theo h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 cho c\u1ea3 hai, v\u00ec: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\u201d \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

-Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu<\/strong><\/em>: Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a sai l\u1ea7m, t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00f4 t\u00e2m, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1eb7ng v\u1eadt m\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 trao ban. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nhau, l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 nhau v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a nhau<\/strong>. Do \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn, do t\u1ef1 \u00e1i, do ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, do thi\u1ebfu ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u00a0\u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu.<\/p>\n\n\n

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-Kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e2n qu\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu<\/strong><\/em>: Coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, khinh b\u1ec9, b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, c\u1ee7a t\u1eb7ng v\u1eadt. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 sai l\u1ea7m do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. L\u00fac n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, chia ly v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Thi\u1ebfu y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 hy sinh<\/strong><\/em>: Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh, chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 em, chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa hai ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh n\u00e0o b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 hy sinh: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ed m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau.\u201d (Gioan 15:13)<\/mark> H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e1 b\u1eb1ng th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o n\u00e0y. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd n\u00f3i l\u00ean s\u1ef1 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n ly c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn: \u201cS\u1ef1 g\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft, lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n ly.\u201d (Matthew 19:6 v\u00e0 Mark 10:9) \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi n\u1eeda gh\u00e9p c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 hy sinh.<\/mark><\/strong> V\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u201cm\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng\u201d cho ta, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 ta th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u00edch k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 tham lam. M\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d, ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb x\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a x\u01b0\u01a1ng ta, v\u00e0 th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a th\u1ecbt ta.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1. Kinh Th\u00e1nh Tr\u1ecdn B\u1ed9 C\u1ef1u \u01af\u1edbc v\u00e0 T\u00e2n \u01af\u1edbc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Kinh Th\u00e1nh. B\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a Lm. Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ebf Thu\u1ea5n, CSsR.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Saint Joseph Edition of The New American Bible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. AI Overview<\/p>\n

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