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TS Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Truy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eef h\u00e0nh m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i nh\u1ec5 nh\u00e3i v\u00e1c tr\u00ean vai m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i bao \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1. B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb gh\u00ec l\u1ea1i b\u1edfi s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng trong chi\u1ebfc bao. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean anh ta b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng anh kh\u00f4ng nghe. Sau c\u00f9ng v\u00ec th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, n\u00ean anh \u0111\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00ean v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1edf chi\u1ebfc bao, l\u1ef1a t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t b\u1ecf \u0111i. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p m\u1ea7u, anh th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn anh t\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129, t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf h\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m g\u00ec nh\u1eefng s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 trong bao. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4i th\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong n\u00ean anh v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf h\u1ebft. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0nh bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u00ec qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u00e3, anh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, anh b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n. Anh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gi\u1edd th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi v\u1ec1 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eef h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta. C\u00e1i bao s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadn th\u00f9, tranh ch\u1ea5p, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, ghen gh\u00e9t, th\u00f9 o\u00e1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho nhau, ho\u1eb7c do ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00e8 tr\u00ean l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tr\u00ean l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft, ai c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng do c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf, tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u00e0m bu\u1ed3n l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o bao gi\u1edd ch\u01b0a? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho h\u1ecd?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay h\u1eefu \u00fd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111au kh\u1ed5, nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3, thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n bao gi\u1edd ch\u01b0a? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9, h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/strong> \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u1edf m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng tinh th\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m h\u01a1n, v\u00ec: \u201cCho th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00ed h\u01a1n nh\u1eadn\u201d. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tha th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, b\u1ecb coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f2i l\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i danh d\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ai c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i tinh th\u1ea7n, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i. \u0110\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb thua thi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tha v\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1<\/strong>. T\u1eeb ng\u1eef t\u00e2m linh g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ng\u1eef t\u00e2m l\u00fd g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tha th\u1ee9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn tha th\u1ee9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed9 h\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e1c tr\u00ean vai bao s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0nh bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u00e1i t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 ty m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n bu\u1ed3n gi\u1eadn, phi\u1ec1n tr\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh nghi ng\u1edd, ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, so s\u00e1nh, t\u1ecb hi\u1ec1m v\u00e0 \u00e1c c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1i t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 t\u00f4n, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n th\u1ed5i ph\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n tr\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn khinh b\u1ec9, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1p, h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c x\u00e9t t\u1eeb hai m\u1eb7t nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh thua k\u00e9m. Danh d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e2u, m\u1eb7t m\u0169i \u0111\u00e2u, t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2u? L\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 ngay c\u1ea3 khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m th\u00ec sao? L\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Tha nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f2n ai s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa, c\u00f2n ai k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa? L\u00e0m v\u1eady s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m, m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1, m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft uy t\u00edn. \u201cQu\u00e2n t\u1eed tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed9n!\u201d M\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i!  V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eef h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi bao s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 tr\u00ean vai, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u201cch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0nh bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf…\u201d v\u00ec c\u00e1i t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tha th\u1ee9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201cTha v\u00e0 qu\u00ean<\/strong>\u201d (Forgive and forget). T\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf l\u1edbn trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tha th\u1ee9. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng qu\u00ean n\u00f3 th\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian. Tha \u0111\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean. B\u1ecf qua \u0111\u1ea5y m\u00e0 l\u00e2u l\u00e2u v\u1eabn nh\u1edb. Nh\u01b0ng tha m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng tha, ho\u1eb7c tha n\u1eeda v\u1eddi! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n ai \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tha m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean th\u00ec c\u00e1i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ed7i \u0111au, n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3ng ph\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tha \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, tha m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng trong t\u00fai s\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tha lu\u00f4n mang tr\u00ean vai, trong khi v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd tha th\u1ee9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9 tha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, khi l\u1ee5c l\u1ecdi k\u00fd \u1ee9c t\u00ecm t\u00f2i nh\u1eefng l\u00fd lu\u1eadn v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9ng c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i l\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta suy ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u xin Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf, \u0110\u1ea5ng T\u1ed1i Cao \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ng\u00e0i th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: T\u1eeb h\u01b0 v\u00f4 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, t\u1eeb tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, t\u1eeb th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n\u2026 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3, \u0111ang c\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t do t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf. M\u00f3n n\u1ee3 v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 to t\u00e1t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn Ng\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng Ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn tha t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tha cho nhau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Th\u1eadt ra, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u00e0i bi\u1ebft ta c\u00f3 \u01b0u v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u, c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng l\u00f4i k\u00e9o l\u00e0m \u00e1c. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ch\u00fang ta t\u00e2m l\u00fd tha th\u1ee9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd y\u00eau m\u00ecnh: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ai gh\u00e9t m\u00ecnh bao gi\u1edd\u201d [1]<\/strong>. Y\u00eau m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau thi\u00eang li\u00eang ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau T\u1ea1o H\u00f3a. Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau [2]. Y\u00eau m\u00ecnh trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t do t\u1ef1 \u00e1i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd y\u00eau m\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 m\u00ecnh.<\/strong> M\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 g\u1eadm nh\u1ea5m, nghi\u1ec1n n\u00e1t t\u00e2m can ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i h\u1eadn th\u00f9, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, o\u00e1n gh\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9. N\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 mang bao \u0111\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng tr\u00ean vai, k\u00e9o l\u00ea nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Do \u0111\u00f3, tha th\u1ee9 cho m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1 \u0111ang \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng tr\u00ean vai m\u00ecnh, t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u00ecnh an.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft y\u00eau v\u00e0 tha cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn tha nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u00ednh<\/strong>. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Thomas Merton (1915-1968), nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 chi\u00eam ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee3i gi\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00ean: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o\u201d (No man is an island). Theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, t\u1eeb khi c\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f3c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi xu\u00f4i tay nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ecbu \u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec1u mang \u01a1n l\u1eabn nhau. Do \u0111\u00f3, Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ai, kh\u00f4ng phi\u1ec1n ai, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ai l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn, h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau, sau khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft y\u00eau v\u00e0 tha cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 tha<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cCh\u00ednh khi th\u1ee9 tha l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9<\/strong>\u201d [3]. Tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nguy\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cho t\u00f4i h\u00f4m nay. \u0110i gi\u1eefa cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i vai n\u1eb7ng tr\u1eefu nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, th\u00f9 o\u00e1n, tranh ch\u1ea5p l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u1edbi kh\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1 trai vai. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, thanh th\u1ea3n, b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1. \u00caph\u00eas\u00f4 5:29.
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3. St. Phanxic\u00f4 Assisi (1181\/1182-1226).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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